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I'M SICK AND TIRED OF THE ABUSE!!!!!

Original post by EmberLynn

Okay I have just recieved another nasty message from some snobby bride. She went to my webpage and put a nasty comment in my felicite registery. She also sent me a nasty reply calling me a trashy whore! I know it is an LI bride because they had to get to my account that is only on my LI webpage! If any you have a problem with me, confront me like an adult! Don't be a stupid coward, hiding under some false identy! My wedding is my damn business! HOW I CHOOSE TO DRESS, LIVE, OR WHAT MY DARN PICTURE SHOWS IS MY BUSINESS! I'm NOT TAKING IT ANYMORE! ALSO I'm not changing my site, the picture is staying! I'm not ashamed of anything that I've said, or put on that site. If you have a problem with it, take it up with me face to face! I can't stand cowards!

LaurenluvsTJ Posted:

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Some people are just plain mean and nasty and get off on being rude to others. Just ignore them!!
I am so sorry you are going through this, but stay strong and true to your convictions! You are so much the better person!!!
EmberLynn Posted:

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Thank you all for your support! Its nice to know that people like that bride and others like her, aren't that majority her at LI weddings. Thank you!

littlebookworm4 Posted:

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it's truly amazing how simple minded some people are

Ronkonkomonga Posted:

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don't worry about it Sista - I mean really - what a sad little empty life that person must have to log onto a guest book to make someone feel bad. You have to feel sorry for some one like that - they must feel pretty badly about themselves to feel the need to hurt someone else in order to make themselves feel better.

And besides - look how much support you got!
slwh2005 Posted:

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I'm sorry you've had to deal with such nastiness. I just have a question: how do they know what your website is? Are you sure it's someone from here? That is really awful. I don't blame you for being upset.

lanikai Posted:

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Keep your head up, stand your ground and don't stoop to that person's level. People need to learn more tolerance and respect. I am sorry this has happened to you. Your day should be as you envision without recriminations from anyone, much less someone so inconsequential.

PegaLega Posted:

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I signed your guest book too!
Dont let people get you down. You are getting married the way you want to. No one plans there wedding exactly the same, some have it in a church some dont, some have it in a hall and some dont...no one has any right to say anything about the way you two choose to get married......
tjs Posted:

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im sorry to hear that. Some people are just closed minded and immature makes you wonder how being that immature they are getting married, kind of scary. I know it is easier said then done but dont let her get to you...that is what she wants. She needs to obviously get a life. How boring and dull this world would be if we were all the same to bad not everybody can see that! good luck and happy planning
leighdvm Posted:

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It's a shame how small-minded and petty some people can be. Ignore the beeyotch -- that's what I do to nasty and rude people.

hbradio Posted:

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Dont let the person see that they got to you!!!!!
Suzannebride Posted:

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That is just so disgusting and kinda reminds me of why I hate people. How pathetic of someone to go onto your guestbook and make an anonymous rude comment. I hope you see by all of these responses that there are better people out there and that one crummy person should really be ignored. You have every right to a unique and happy wedding day!

Soon2BMrsA Posted:

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So sorry this happened! I guess some people really dont have anything better to do with their time.
curliegirl Posted:

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I guess I missed something...where is your website? I went to the Church, but your site isn't there....well, as my mom always taught me, if you don't have anything nice tosay, keep your trap shut! (she kind of changed the saying a little!

I learned the hard way that you have to do what makes you happy, and just brush off what others say, and eventually they will get the hint that it doesn't bother you....
DAVALJO2 Posted:

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I don't get what the big deal is. Just don't worry about what anyone says. You r going to have a great wedding. Some people are so immature. Good luck
pinkstar025 Posted:

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I don't understand either what is so terrible that you shouldn't have on there???

I wouldn't care what this person is thinking or saying...Stay as you are..STRONG....some people need to get a life!
I signed your book too!

ETA: oops i had a spelling error....i guess I'll start getting nasty comments about me too
oct2006 Posted:

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I am like the previous poster I am unable to see what was said or what this person is talking about. But please keep your head up high and remember its your day so do it however you want to. You have alot of people who are sticking by you, dont let one idiot ruin your plans.

If any can let us know how to check it out so I can sign the guest book i'd greatly appreciate it.
Mystere Posted:

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just reiterating whats already been said and what you already know - ignore the jerk - there are some petty snobby people in this world that are under the impression that if they don't agree then whatever it is is obviously wrong. We're here for you - keep posting!!! There is nothing wrong with any of your ideas !!!

i think its funny though when people think they're tough by making nasty comments to try to make happy people miserable and yet they are so cowardly they attack anonymously(sp?) - its disgusting!

I would love for you to report the lp address and have them knocked off the site for being so catty/inappropraite!!
Jennie0898 Posted:

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People can be so lame!!! Just ignore the jerk and don't let them get to you. Obviously, from all the posts here, people know you are a good person. And to the nasty poster... like the poster above said... If you don't have anything nice to say... Keep Your Trap Shut!!! I love that new spin on an old saying!!!


By the way, how do you check out other people's websites?? I didn't realize I could even have one on here! So if anyone knows, please share!!
halfpintny Posted:

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I'm a very open minded person and decided to pop onto your website to check it out. There was a rude comment because you're in a bustier????? People need to grow up. Everyone is quick to say 'My Wedding My Way' they need to practice what they preach. Sometimes there are ideas here that I dont agree with but I would never make someone feel bad and I certainly wouldn't post something on someone's guest book that was intentionally hurtful. I have found everyone on this site to be so caring and helpful. I can't believe someone would be so rude and mean. Ignore the bad apple and keep your website the way it is. It reflects you and that's what's important.

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