I'm just sitting here working from home and crying because I HATE EVERYTHING TODAY. I'm STILL waiting on rsvps even though my date was last week..how am I supposed to do my placecards and tables when I don't even know who's coming!? My boss lied to me and is going on vacation instead of to my wedding..my sister moved to Florida last month and I really miss her..I'm never going to be able to afford a house.. the list goes on. I'm so so down and just feeling sorry for myself today.
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I have been feeling the same way too, I think it's normal to have up and down days. Try to do something that relaxes you, without bringing up wedding related stuff. Doing something that relaxes you helped me out a few times.
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Don't worry, those that want to be there on your big day will be - I would use this weekend to call the no-rsvps responses people and get an answer from them, so you can work on your placecards over the next week or so, so by Sept, you can relax knowing everything is done!
Everything else will fall into place in time - just relax!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i'm so sorry. i hate days like that.
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I'm just sitting here working from home and crying because I HATE EVERYTHING TODAY. I'm STILL waiting on rsvps even though my date was last week..how am I supposed to do my placecards and tables when I don't even know who's coming!? My boss lied to me and is going on vacation instead of to my wedding..my sister moved to Florida last month and I really miss her..I'm never going to be able to afford a house.. the list goes on. I'm so so down and just feeling sorry for myself today.
You have to just think of the good things that are going on. If you are still waitng on RSVPs have the mom's call people from each side, so you don't have to deal with it.
Take care of your self...
As far as the house goes... FH and I are starting to look at CT and PA.
You are not alone
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No worries! It will be OK!
Some people just stink! What is so difficult about being HONEST???? I'm so sorry your boss lied to you. Maybe she was trying to keep from hurting your feelings?
Chin up! Think happy thoughts! Send out some reminder e-mails on your RSVP's, maybe make a few phone calls? I don't know what the correct etiquette is on this.
When it comes to a home do yourself a favor and if at ALL possible move off of LI. CT is much more affordable. I live in Waterbury. It's beautiful here and I just bought a GORGEOUS 2 story colonial for $201,000! You DON'T have to spend $400,000 on a falling apart house that needs $50,000 worth of renovations!!! It's not worth it! Look elsewhere or look into getting a condo or townhouse. Don't stress it! It will all work out!
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Just think about how beautiful you will feel on your wedding day when the photographer is taking pics of you and your new husband... picture yourself on that day.
Don't be upset. Who cares about your boss. Everyone has to deal with those rude non-RSVPers. Don't take it personally. That's THEIR problem that they're so rude! You'll get past this!
Go do something nice for yourself... even if it's treating yourself to a Starbucks Frappucino at lunch or something.
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feel better hon!
alioop4282
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Awww.thanks everyone. I feel a little better already. You guys are the best.
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Hey date twin! I am so sorry for the way you are feeling. We've all been there. How about make Friday night like date might for you and FH? I bet you two could use the time. I must say, being this close to the day has had me all sorts of weird emotions, but I started my upward spiral about 2 days ago. Keep your head up and do something nice for yourself. Remember, this is the day you have been waiting for and its 33 days away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Awww I am feeling the same way @ times....Hugs to you....
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Ooooh, I'm so sorry! Go get a sloppy Jack kiss!
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Awww...maybe you're just having a rough week. Think happy thoughts!! You'll be married soon!!
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Alision!!!! Stop, its almost here! I told you dont worry about your boss he's a ****
The RSVP's will work out, call the ppl who are left and tell them you need to know right now!
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It will get so much better so quickly. You are going to look up soon enough and say 'Holy Cow! I am a married woman! All of that planning and stressing went by SO fast!'
And you will get a house. And you will plan your tables. And it will all work out!
