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I'm so confused... and annoyed!

rengor Posted:

I'm so confused... and annoyed!

Okay so here's the story .. one of my BM, I have known her since 2nd grade .. so basically forever. Our parents are also friends (not close but they invite each other to big events) .. so my BM calls me today and goes 'I don't know how to ask you this but is my sister invited to the wedding?' .. well she's not and she knows that so I could not understand why she was even asking me that question. Basically when her sister got married, like 10 years ago, her parents invited my parents to the wedding. My parents went. Then my BM has to nerve to say 'Well I know she's not invited because weddings are expensive but can you just send her an invite? I swear she won't come .. she has two small children. Or I can just give her my invitation so you don't have to send her one.' Basically, my BM mom asked her if I could just send her sister an invite because her mom doesn't want her sister to get offended and upset that she's not invited. Well too bad!!

I'm so annoyed and now I don't even know what to do. I don't want to upset people but the only reason my parents were at her sisters wedding was because her parents invited them just like my parents are inviting hers.

Ok sorry I wrote a whole book here ... had to vent!
allornil Posted:

Re: I'm so confused... and annoyed!

that's just such a big wow....wow...

you weren't invited to hers. Nice to make you feel uncomfortable.


AngnShaun Posted:

Re: I'm so confused... and annoyed!

so obnoxious... i would say no... that you only ordered enough invites for your a and b list

AwaitingAugust Posted:

Re: I'm so confused... and annoyed!


Posted by allornil
you weren't invited to hers



exactly ... tell your BM that you're not really ok with that ... it's not fair to invite someone for the sole reason that you know they'll decline.

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