My BM's have seriously been completely absent during everything (except for my sister). A few weeks ago I asked them to come over today to help me do the favors, then I would make them dinner. My one BM, who i've been friends with since we were in 6th grade, who still hasn't found the time to come out to my house since I moved in with FH (a year ago), just texted me that she's 'not feeling good, and didn't sleep well last night,' so she can't come today. I'm soooo angry!!!
What do you girls think I should do? Would you text her back and tell her straight out that i'm pissed....or just ignore her and let her get the hint that i'm not talking to her??
Soon2bShea
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sorry they are being difficult...I've had my hands full with my girls too.
I would text her back and say something along the lines of you are disappointed, and expected more from her. and it hurts your feelings that she hasnt been 'there' for you during this happy time. (i personally like the 'hurt your feelings' line because it makes people feel like sh*t )
FromGtoC
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For me personally I wouldn't get in an argument with her over the favors (then things might get awkward and who knows if someone would back out of the wedding). I take a mental note and when it is their turn for me to help I didn't sleep well that night sorry... I hope this doesn't seem childish.
SoonToBeMrsCali
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I would be honest and tell her you're disappointed and were looking forward to spending time with your girls. Def tell her that you hope she feels better though.
DreamyD
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Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali
I would be honest and tell her you're disappointed and were looking forward to spending time with your girls. Def tell her that you hope she feels better though.
