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I'm so upset

finallygotthering Posted:

I'm so upset

I FMed to different newlyweds about hair and make up and a photography question, none of them returned my fm. At first I was like maybe they don't come on here often but they post here everyday. My thing is if you don't want people asking you questions don't post it on Bride Review, because you will get a lot of questions from upcoming brides. My questions was not how much you paid, it was the contact info, or how was the vendor the day of or how did your proofs come out.
dbleplay17 Posted:

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are they still posting...maybe they havent been on LIW for awhile??

i hope they get back to u
finallygotthering Posted:

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Posted by dbleplay17

are they still posting...maybe they havent been on LIW for awhile??

i hope they get back to u



yes, they are still posting that is the reason whay I am upset, I know that I am a newbie here but if anyone asked me a question I would love to help
prncssrachel Posted:

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Posted by finallygotthering


Posted by dbleplay17

are they still posting...maybe they havent been on LIW for awhile??

i hope they get back to u



yes, they are still posting that is the reason whay I am upset, I know that I am a newbie here but if anyone asked me a question I would love to help



Well, you don't know people's situations. Maybe they just didn't get a chance to get back to you yet. I know that I often wait until I can really put some thought into an FM before I sit and write someone back. JMO.
finallygotthering Posted:

Re: I'm so upset


Posted by prncssrachel


Posted by finallygotthering


Posted by dbleplay17

are they still posting...maybe they havent been on LIW for awhile??

i hope they get back to u



yes, they are still posting that is the reason whay I am upset, I know that I am a newbie here but if anyone asked me a question I would love to help



Well, you don't know people's situations. Maybe they just didn't get a chance to get back to you yet. I know that I often wait until I can really put some thought into an FM before I sit and write someone back. JMO.



Maybe I am over reacting, I FMed one of the last week, she did not returned my FM so I FMed her again two days ago still no FM, I guess they don't want to FM me
prncssrachel Posted:

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Aww. I wouldn't take it personally. People get busy or they read it and forget to respond. Who is it you want info for? Maybe someone else has used them?
finallygotthering Posted:

Re: I'm so upset


Posted by prncssrachel

Aww. I wouldn't take it personally. People get busy or they read it and forget to respond. Who is it you want info for? Maybe someone else has used them?



The most important one is Sada the make up Artist, I would love to get the contact info for her
PeterNChris Posted:

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Sorry to hear that. All the newly married gals I have contacted have been great. Keep trying!
bluesashbride Posted:

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Maybe she didn't like the way you asked? Its a possibility. Were you nice about it?

SomethingBlu Posted:

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Posted by prncssrachel

Well, you don't know people's situations. Maybe they just didn't get a chance to get back to you yet. I know that I often wait until I can really put some thought into an FM before I sit and write someone back. JMO.


I agree with Rachel...I like to take my time when responding so I could be thorough...I'm all about 'thoroughness' or is it that I'm long winded? Ah, maybe it's both! But don't take it personally!
beautyq115 Posted:

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Honestly...if I get FM from a person I really don't know I don't answer it...some people who have FMed me I have never encountered on here and have asked specific questions about prices and stuff and I don't reply....I am just afraid its a vendor or something

mtdr1106 Posted:

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no - i know what you mean. i have posts on the forum (actually i posted the same question on 3 of them) and all i get is myself responding with a 'no one?' quote!! LOL


oh well - sorry - i know it stinks and frankly i don't get what the big secret is all about with stuff like that. even if you don't know or don't remember - just say so.
MsKitty1274 Posted:

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Posted by finallygotthering

I FMed to different newlyweds about hair and make up and a photography question, none of them returned my fm. At first I was like maybe they don't come on here often but they post here everyday. My thing is if you don't want people asking you questions don't post it on Bride Review, because you will get a lot of questions from upcoming brides. My questions was not how much you paid, it was the contact info, or how was the vendor the day of or how did your proofs come out.



Are you receiving FMs? I ask this b/c I sent oyu an FM asking a question on 8/29 and didn't get a response.

Another thing, I know there have been times I get the message of a new FM and click close (b/c I may be in the midst of going to read or reply to a post) and 'forget' to get back to read the FM.

Either way, hope you get the info you're looking for!

-Jill
stephanief Posted:

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That is shady.....I'm sorry you have to go through that. They should want to help or like you said, don't post your review

edsprincess Posted:

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i wouldnt take it personally. maybe they have'nt had the chance. evertime i fm someone. they always get back. just a matter of time. did you make sure their name is spelt right?

glinda_goodwitch Posted:

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I know that when I get an FM, if it is an easy question I respond right away. But if it requires some thought, I tend to wait until I have time to answer throroughly. How long has it been? If it's only been a few days, then I wouldn't worry
Soon2BMrsA Posted:

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Posted by finallygotthering


Posted by prncssrachel

Aww. I wouldn't take it personally. People get busy or they read it and forget to respond. Who is it you want info for? Maybe someone else has used them?



The most important one is Sada the make up Artist, I would love to get the contact info for her



Here is the contact info I have for Sada, hope it is still current.
[email protected]
917-476-1361

I wouldnt take it too personally either..there have been times Ive gotten FMs and then forgotten all about it cuz I was in the middle of doing something or got busy at work.
melissaandsean Posted:

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Posted by prncssrachel


Posted by finallygotthering


Posted by dbleplay17

are they still posting...maybe they havent been on LIW for awhile??

i hope they get back to u



yes, they are still posting that is the reason whay I am upset, I know that I am a newbie here but if anyone asked me a question I would love to help



Well, you don't know people's situations. Maybe they just didn't get a chance to get back to you yet. I know that I often wait until I can really put some thought into an FM before I sit and write someone back. JMO.



same thing here. Or some questions I get, I have to go find the info, because I don't have it 'readily' available in my 'bridal binder' because MY PLANNING is OVER! And I want to give the best most accurate info, but I can't do that very quickly sometimes.

patience. most of 'us' will get around to responding!

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