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Im so upset, (bridesmaid had to drop out.)

june262004 Posted:

Im so upset, (bridesmaid had to drop out.)

My best friend since I am 3 years old Is going to law school. She just sent me an e-mail Saying how important I am and how happy she was that I picked her to be in the wedding but she got an Internship to a Law Firm of her choice in Cleavland and its very hard to get that and they only pick 2 or 3 people to go. I am happy for her but Im so upset and disappointed How selfish of me right!


ETA the weekend of my wedding she has a mandatory Bussiness Trip.
Jax430 Posted:

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Aw, of course it's not selfish of you! That really stinks that she can't be a BM now. Is she saying that she can't be at the wedding at all?
jw11897 Posted:

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It is not selfish of you this is one of the most important people in your lives. I am sure she is just as disappointed as you that she could not be your BM.
July2004Bride Posted:

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Sorry to hear that You are not being selfish..
june262004 Posted:

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no She cant even come now.

Moehick Posted:

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So sorry to hear that! It's OK that your uset.
1017Bride Posted:

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I'm sorry to hear that. Its a tough situation! You want to be happy for your friend but you want her to be part of your special day too!
Janine24 Posted:

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awww....sorry to hear that
Rob-luvs-me Posted:

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I'm sorry I'm a little confused - You ARE getting married on a Saturday right? I don't see how she couldn't come in either late friday night or Sat morning- she could even bring work with her if she needed to - I have a lot of friends who have had summer jobs at firms in the city who were able to find 1 day to go to a wedding.

I'm sorry - I know that must be really hard -
june262004 Posted:

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She has a bussiness Trip that is mandatory (actually 3 trips) that weekend!

june262004 Posted:

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Sorry I didnt mention that in my original post!

Smolokoff Posted:

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I'm sorry to hear about your friend. I hope she can at least make it to the wedding somehow.
june262004 Posted:

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Thanks guys.

kathleenmarie Posted:

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no its not selfish of you at all, but your friend has a great reason and its just sad that it worked out that way.
MCDO15 Posted:

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you never know..something might get cancelled or postone...

thats a hard situation to deal with.....
Jess2 Posted:

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It's not selfish, I'd feel the same exact way. Sorry to hear about that...

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