My FI friend owns a bar and we usually go every other Sat night with a bunch of people for drinks. Well this past Sat we went and FI friend hired a new bartender that was SOOO HOT!!! I couldn't keep my eyes off him and he kept looking too! Thankfully FI was not paying attention so he didn't notice.
I would NEVER EVER act on it, I would never cheat but now I feel sort of bad. My MOH says its ok to look but don't touch, but I still feel a little guilty.
Ok, my confession is over. I feel better.
Thanks for listening
newnybride2be
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shame on you!!!! lol im sure that everyone has had a time in their life when they couldnt keep their eyes off of someone other than FH...doesnt make you a bad person...just makes you HUMAN. I believe its natural instinct to look. As long as you behaved yourself, theres nothing to worry about!!!
cindyandkevin
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Ok, you're engaged but you're not dead! You're MOH is right, it's ok to look just as long as you don't act on it. As long as you know that you're FI is the best guy in the world for you and that you would never leave him then you have nothing to worry about. If you go there every Saturday you'll get used to/bored of this new bartender (bc he's just eye candy to you) and things will return to normal. You have so much more with your FI! Don't sweat it!!!
buggiegirl
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'Just because you are on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu'
OMG I sound like a guy
glinda_goodwitch
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Seriously, don't feel bad. I'm sure we have all been in similar situations, and its okay because we're human. Your MOH is right. And since you never have the intention of acting on your feelings, you have no reason to feel guilty.
psf80
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Posted by buggiegirl
'Just because you are on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu'
