I'm soooo sad.

feb06bride Posted: Feb 09, 2006 01:48 PM

I'm soooo sad.

My wedding is in two weeks....one of my bridesmaid found out she's 11 weeks pregnant and at the 1st fitting her dress did not zip up.

Second, another bridesmaid and groommen cancelled on us yesterday... His father passed away yesterday...Now family members are cancelling on us....I feel my wedding is going to be a disaster.

JXNOscar Posted: Feb 09, 2006 01:49 PM

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Sunrise813 Posted: Feb 09, 2006 01:50 PM

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BEANS Posted: Feb 09, 2006 01:50 PM

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pigs222seal Posted: Feb 09, 2006 01:51 PM

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Hang in there, you will have a beautiful wedding no matter what!!!

feb06bride Posted: Feb 09, 2006 01:54 PM

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thank u guys

iffer042373 Posted: Feb 09, 2006 01:55 PM

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you will still have a beautiful wedding

Wintersbride Posted: Feb 09, 2006 01:55 PM

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seta Posted: Feb 09, 2006 01:55 PM

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Hang in there, everything will work out. Can't they take out her dress?

STBH Posted: Feb 09, 2006 01:56 PM

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JessicaM. Posted: Feb 09, 2006 01:57 PM

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how could such a beautiful event be a disaster. You and your fh...your boyfriend your LOVE are exchanging vows binding you together...there is TOO much beauty and joy it that to have these hiccups ruin it.

does it suk, sure it does. but it's their loss if they don't go! I've had some crappy stuff happen too, but NOTHING can spoil my wedding for me (as long as fh is with me, I am happy)

keep your head up sweetie...and if you go below your minimum, call on your LIW girls!

btw, is there any way another dress can be ordered for your bm- or maybe another style in the same color. maybe we can help you find something that she can wear...post a pic!

October Bliss Posted: Feb 09, 2006 01:57 PM

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A few missing guests does not a disaster make. Rejoice that your BM is going to have a baby, and send condolences to the GM who lost his father.

Then, get yourself married and enjoy your new hubby!

feb06bride Posted: Feb 09, 2006 01:57 PM

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I'm hoping. We purchased them @ Demetrios in Macy's. At least give a credit towards Macy's.

kissy27 Posted: Feb 09, 2006 02:00 PM

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I am so sorry you are going through all this so close to the wedding

Remember the one thing that is important, no matter what happens around you, the main reason for this day is you are marrying your FH!!! When the day is over, you will be a wife & that is the most important!

Don't loose sight of that!

feb06bride Posted: Feb 09, 2006 02:02 PM

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Is too late to change the style but this is the dress... i'm having them pull up the dress and make an empire waist so she has room....i have no idea how is going to look but hopefully it comes out ok.

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JessicaM. Posted: Feb 09, 2006 02:06 PM

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Posted by feb06bride

Is too late to change the style but this is the dress... i'm having them pull up the dress and make an empire waist so she has room....i have no idea how is going to look but hopefully it comes out ok.

I think that will look great...the top looks like an empire waist would be just as flattering- and think of how beautiful her complexion will be in pics!

although inconvenient, it is a happy time.

I am sorry for the loss in your GM's family.

lulugrrl Posted: Feb 09, 2006 02:10 PM

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I am so sorry

It's so hard to plan so far ahead...because these two things that have happened are totally unforseen....and you can't be mad at anyone.

Just enjoy your day, the most important person will be there...your FH..you will be beautiful, and the wedding willbe beautiful no matter what...it's a day of love!

LovelyChas Posted: Feb 09, 2006 02:10 PM

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Don't worry....everything will work out.....just remember you are marrying your soul mate and that's all that matters.....those that will be there will experience it with you...those that can't make it will have to hear how beautiful it was.

M&S Sept12006 Posted: Feb 09, 2006 02:11 PM

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Sweetie, please keep your head up! This is the most beautiful time in your life and you should be the happiest no matter what! Yeah, things happen in life, but you know what, they have a funny way of working themselves out as well. Im sure your wedding day is going to be AMAZING and everything will run smoothly! Keep your chin up!