so the whole me trying to COMPROMISE and try to SAVE MONEY and be a GOOD DAUGHTER... well.. it didnt go over too well.
instead of having my mom spend $4+ per shower invite, i decided to do them myself. only problem was the pack didnt come with RSVP cards. so i went to a wedding supply store/florist and couldnt find 1 effin company that has the same color pink as my DIY invites.
my mom got mad at me and just told me to order the invites i originally wanted and to be done with it.
then came the favors. She got bath and body works shower gel for my shower. get it? har harr well i trieddddddd to be crafty and wrap them myself in tulle... UNSUCCESSFUL! so now we are getting those professionally wrapped.
next came CPs for my shower. i wanted to just buy orchids from the florist and i was going to DIY the cps. get 24 inch cylender vases form michaels.. throw in some crystals and BAM.. well MOTHER doesnt like that idea. she thinks it looks ugly.
so now i have to pick out huge floral CPs to please her.
just venting! sorry.
i guess im not a DIY kinda gal. PFFT!
RitasEngaged
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if your mom is never going to be pleased just tell her to do everything her self than
question - why do you need rsvp cards for shower invites?
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she just wants to make me happy and im SUPER ANAL.. like bad.. but she just told me she'd rather pay extra to get shyt done right the 1st time instead of my spending all this wasted time looking for stuff. i guess she didnt wanna tell me that in the beginning cuz i wouldve gone nuts with spending her $ lol i guess she felt bad for me .
i need rsvp cards cuz if i leave my moms # on the invites its going to be a mess! the lady just got an answering machine. she slike 1000 yrs old. we still have a ROTARY phone in the kitchen. oh best part? ready?? she doesnt delete answering machine messages! i asked her why.. she says when she gets bored, she replays them!
WHAT!!??!!?
so yes, rsvp cards are a MUST!
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Posted by grkbarbie
she just wants to make me happy and im SUPER ANAL.. like bad.. but she just told me she'd rather pay extra to get shyt done right the 1st time instead of my spending all this wasted time looking for stuff. i guess she didnt wanna tell me that in the beginning cuz i wouldve gone nuts with spending her $ lol i guess she felt bad for me .
i need rsvp cards cuz if i leave my moms # on the invites its going to be a mess! the lady just got an answering machine. she slike 1000 yrs old. we still have a ROTARY phone in the kitchen. oh best part? ready?? she doesnt delete answering machine messages! i asked her why.. she says when she gets bored, she replays them!
WHAT!!??!!?
so yes, rsvp cards are a MUST!
omfg i am dying replaying messages
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Posted by grkbarbie
she just wants to make me happy and im SUPER ANAL.. like bad.. but she just told me she'd rather pay extra to get shyt done right the 1st time instead of my spending all this wasted time looking for stuff. i guess she didnt wanna tell me that in the beginning cuz i wouldve gone nuts with spending her $ lol i guess she felt bad for me .
i need rsvp cards cuz if i leave my moms # on the invites its going to be a mess! the lady just got an answering machine. she slike 1000 yrs old. we still have a ROTARY phone in the kitchen. oh best part? ready?? she doesnt delete answering machine messages! i asked her why.. she says when she gets bored, she replays them!
WHAT!!??!!?
so yes, rsvp cards are a MUST!
omg Barb that is too funny
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thats pretty funny about the messages. isnt there someone else number you can maybe leave for rsvps?
and why not try those lil organze bags for the bottles and then the tulle for the jordan almonds. you cant mess up dropping a bottle in a bag can ya?
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what about someones email? For my friends baby shower they gave a telephone # and an email I RSVP with an email. I HATE calling for anything.
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Posted by Kerri Lynn
Posted by grkbarbie
she just wants to make me happy and im SUPER ANAL.. like bad.. but she just told me she'd rather pay extra to get shyt done right the 1st time instead of my spending all this wasted time looking for stuff. i guess she didnt wanna tell me that in the beginning cuz i wouldve gone nuts with spending her $ lol i guess she felt bad for me .
i need rsvp cards cuz if i leave my moms # on the invites its going to be a mess! the lady just got an answering machine. she slike 1000 yrs old. we still have a ROTARY phone in the kitchen. oh best part? ready?? she doesnt delete answering machine messages! i asked her why.. she says when she gets bored, she replays them!
WHAT!!??!!?
so yes, rsvp cards are a MUST!
omg Barb that is too funny
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we need the almonds attached to the favor and everythign has to be tulle.. organza bag will look too cheap IN MY OPINION ...dont kill me)
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Posted by grkbarbie
she just wants to make me happy and im SUPER ANAL.. like bad.. but she just told me she'd rather pay extra to get shyt done right the 1st time instead of my spending all this wasted time looking for stuff. i guess she didnt wanna tell me that in the beginning cuz i wouldve gone nuts with spending her $ lol i guess she felt bad for me .
i need rsvp cards cuz if i leave my moms # on the invites its going to be a mess! the lady just got an answering machine. she slike 1000 yrs old. we still have a ROTARY phone in the kitchen. oh best part? ready?? she doesnt delete answering machine messages! i asked her why.. she says when she gets bored, she replays them!
WHAT!!??!!?
so yes, rsvp cards are a MUST!
LMAO!!!!
could be worse...she could be growing poison ivy in a poland spring bottle while replaying all her messages.
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Posted by Soon2bShea
Posted by grkbarbie
she just wants to make me happy and im SUPER ANAL.. like bad.. but she just told me she'd rather pay extra to get shyt done right the 1st time instead of my spending all this wasted time looking for stuff. i guess she didnt wanna tell me that in the beginning cuz i wouldve gone nuts with spending her $ lol i guess she felt bad for me .
i need rsvp cards cuz if i leave my moms # on the invites its going to be a mess! the lady just got an answering machine. she slike 1000 yrs old. we still have a ROTARY phone in the kitchen. oh best part? ready?? she doesnt delete answering machine messages! i asked her why.. she says when she gets bored, she replays them!
WHAT!!??!!?
so yes, rsvp cards are a MUST!
LMAO!!!!
could be worse...she could be growing poison ivy in a poland spring bottle while replaying all her messages.
OMG I spat on my comp screen dying laughing!!!!
Barb, honestly, why are u annoyed? ur getting everything u want and it all is professionally done. sounds like ur shower gonna rock! I'm not a DIY kinda girl as well, and I wish my mom could just pay for everything be done by someone else be happy that ur mom loves u so much she is spending all this money to make the perfect shower for u
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its annoying cuz i wanted to diy..
o yea... uhmm i signe dup for cake decorating class.
im going to attempt to make my own shower cake aAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHH
luckily the reception hall that im having it includes 1 for me lmao
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sounds like something I would attempt to do and then successfully will find to do it for me professionally I decided to accept the fact that I completely lack any creativity, originality or hand eye coordination. gonna pay someone to make my card box and tell FH I made it bwahaha!!
she just wants to make me happy and im SUPER ANAL.. like bad.. but she just told me she'd rather pay extra to get shyt done right the 1st time instead of my spending all this wasted time looking for stuff. i guess she didnt wanna tell me that in the beginning cuz i wouldve gone nuts with spending her $ lol i guess she felt bad for me .
i need rsvp cards cuz if i leave my moms # on the invites its going to be a mess! the lady just got an answering machine. she slike 1000 yrs old. we still have a ROTARY phone in the kitchen. oh best part? ready?? she doesnt delete answering machine messages! i asked her why.. she says when she gets bored, she replays them!
WHAT!!??!!?
so yes, rsvp cards are a MUST!
OMG that is so funny barb
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thats too funny barb, i would just give in and let your mom have her way for the shower, you still have your wedding to make it your way
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that's hilarious!! about the messages! but I really think rsvp's arent' necessary if they can just call someone. Sure you can DIY your invites i think it will be nice good luck with everything
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honestly this would happen to me. I wanted to try DIY for my e-party and mom would not let me bc she knew it would cost her more in the long run... dont you hate when moms are always right?
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OMG your mom is so funny-when she gets bored!! we did a response email address for our eparty-we made one with google. It worked out pretty well.
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i feel your pain, me and DIY just do not mix lolollllll when i tried to make something it ended up costing me more in supplies just to make ONE than it would have to just buy the damn things
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That's really one of the funniest things I've heard. It's nice that your mom just wants everything to be perfect and would rather buy it than have you spend time making them yourself. But I totally understand about wanting to DIY everything because I cannot help being super anal myself. Let's see how that goes once I attempt my first DIY project.