I'm starting to freak out.....

I'm starting to freak out.....

Hey girls!! Do any of you feel as the wedding gets closer, the less you can concentrate at work or in general? I've become an emotional mess. I was reading some of the other brides' reviews at work and I just started crying!! Sometimes I feel silly for it, but can't help it... I have 37 more days of this.... How do you guys plan on dealing? TIA!!!

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What you are feeling is all natural Dawn...I went through it before my wedding. It is a complete build up of emotions & you are easily distracted & overly emotional! Somehow you just get through it! Even after the wedding is over, you still have these emotional battles!

Hang in there! You are so close

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yeah, I am having trouble concentrating on anything at work. It only started happening to me this week though.

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concentrating at work?

i anticipate being a full blown wreck the last couple of weeks before...luckilly my bosses are going on vacation then!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i keep telling FMIL that i need like 2 weeks off all to myself and that the whole wedding would be completed then and i could just relax, but that ain't happening!

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I've posted this before but since I got engaged in November I've been having trouble focusing. Ugh! I still have 6 months left. It's a wonder I haven't gotten fired yet...I'm just so excited!!!!!!!

You're soooo close!

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Yeah, I'm starting to freak out. I have 59 days left and I feel like it is too soon! I have so much to do still.

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Posted by kimbermiller

Date twin, I totally am suffering from the same issue. I thought once all the major vendors, and decisions were made, it would be smooth sailing! I was totally wrong. I am stressing out more now, than I was back when we were deciding the big things.

It's the dang to-do list! It's just growing and growing and it's stressing me out.

We can make it though, 37 days. I am done planning and just want to get married now.

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That makes two of us!!

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i feel that and since my RSVP date is July 15 it stresses me out more because I'm still waithing for RSVP from FAMILY

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I'm getting married in 3 days. I haven't eaten well in 2 weeks and all I think about is the wedding. I can't concentrate on anything else. I think it's very natural. You'll be fine.

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I've been completely off. Im not sleeping well, I have very little appetite. I cry often... I cannot wait to the day of!

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im not freaking out just yet, I think that is because im more anxious to get home. I am back in New York in 5 weeks from today - and I think as soon as i get home (with 8 weeks until the i dos) i will be freaking majorly!!

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I've been lucky with work, our busy season ended a couple of months ago so I've been able to make a lot of wedding plans during the day!

That has made a big difference in my stress levels, so I don't have to worry about only planning on nights and weekends.

But I did notice that yesterday (and today), even though I have tasks I need to accomplish, I find myself coming back to LIWeddings over and over!!

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Posted by greenfreak

I've been lucky with work, our busy season ended a couple of months ago so I've been able to make a lot of wedding plans during the day!

That has made a big difference in my stress levels, so I don't have to worry about only planning on nights and weekends.

But I did notice that yesterday (and today), even though I have tasks I need to accomplish, I find myself coming back to LIWeddings over and over!!

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Me too!!!

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Posted by blueyes678

Hey girls!! Do any of you feel as the wedding gets closer, the less you can concentrate at work or in general? I've become an emotional mess. I was reading some of the other brides' reviews at work and I just started crying!! Sometimes I feel silly for it, but can't help it... I have 37 more days of this.... How do you guys plan on dealing? TIA!!!

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Absolutely, I am emotional mess too. I start crying, then screaming an yelling. I'm having horrible wedding nightmares and I feel so stressed and under so much pressure. Each day that goes by and it gets closer and closer I start to freak out. I think I'm having a little bit of anxiety from it, I started to have hot flashes whenever I wa talking about the wedding.

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I am absolutely useless at work now - I'm normally very efficient and organized so this kills me... I'm also anal retentive. But thankfully, I've gotten through the teary period - now I'm like in a perpetual good mood and wedding stuff makes me smile instead of bawl. And I'm too anxious to sleep. Only 8 more days!!!

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Thank you all so much!! I felt like a freak for always crying and then laughing and then crying and then laughing and so on and so forth.... FH was ready to commit me....