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I'm starting to have nightmares

LaurenluvsTJ Posted:

I'm starting to have nightmares

that no one shows up to the wedding.
We already didn't make our minimum and in the last week I have had 3 couples who orginally said they were coming now can't come. Well, one of them I am not sure about, but the husband just had open heart surgery, so I doubt it, and honestly, wouldn't expect them to!!
Its come down to me asking my 8 year old Jr. BM to bring a friend and my brother asking two of his friends.
I just want this all to be over with already. If any of FH's stupid family would have responded yes, we wouldn't be in this sitution. We are inviting people off the street to try to make minimum, and we won't . We have to include kids and vendors to even come close. We called WM and told them the situation, and they weren't too helpful, they said we'll see when we give them our table arrangements and final count. I really hope they do something for us, it will totally s*ck to have to pay all that money for food no one is going to eat. I don't even know where we are in the count now. I think we are going to be at 130 including kids and vendors and our min. is 140.
We should have just gone to a tropical island and had a destination wedding.
M&S Sept12006 Posted:

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Oh sweetie dont fret...the most important people will be there and nothing will bring you down...you'll see!
BEANS Posted:

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

Oh sweetie dont fret...the most important people will be there and nothing will bring you down...you'll see!



ditto on this-don't worry about it-you will be too happy to care!
chapel06 Posted:

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I have the same fears about not making my minimum. The show must go on! You will have a great wedding regardless!

cindyandkevin Posted:

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Oh Lauren, I'm so sorry!!!!!! We're coming really close to not making our minimum either, same thing with FH's family responding no (or not at all). I feel your pain, but try to relax and not worry about it. Even if you do have to pay for empty seats, you're going to be too over-joyed with love that you won't let it bother you. Keep telling yourself, the only thing that matters is that at the end of the day you and TJ are married, it really does help!
ewickens Posted:

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Lauren!!! In the end, you'll be married to the love of your life and that is all that counts!!! Those that want to celebrate with you, will be there and offer unconditional love and support!!!
LaurenluvsTJ Posted:

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Thanks so much everyone!!!
I am so happy to be getting married and I know it will be an unbelievable day, but sometimes this stuff just gets me down!
Thanks for picking me back up and making me smile!!
ewickens Posted:

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Posted by LaurenluvsTJ

Thanks so much everyone!!!
I am so happy to be getting married and I know it will be an unbelievable day, but sometimes this stuff just gets me down!
Thanks for picking me back up and making me smile!!



We're always here for you Lauren - no matter what!

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