Is there anyone who does not get along with his/her siblings spouse or significant other??? I don't have much of a relationship with my sisters new husband, but I Find myself always irritated when I am around him. he is not my kind of person. Is there anyone else who limits the time they spend with the love of their sibling's life?
june262004
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Well my SIL and I get along great always have she is like the sister I never had. My BIL is a different story. It went down hill when he called me a fat f*cking hippo and I jumped over the coffee table and almost beat the sh*t out of him.
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That is absolutely hilarious!!!! How dare he talk to you like that. The thing is that I feel extremely uncmfortable around him. He acts like he is better than everyne in the entire universe
june262004
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Posted by gabrielle
That is absolutely hilarious!!!! How dare he talk to you like that. The thing is that I feel extremely uncmfortable around him. He acts like he is better than everyne in the entire universe
YUP I hear ya. My BIL is just a 35 year old man who is sad cause he will be alone for the rest of his life. The best is when my MIL asked and cried to my DH (after he picked his 2 best friends to be his best men) why he didnt choose his brother wasnt his best man hmmmm let me think????
cluelessbride
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My name is Gabrielle too!!!!!
My DH's brother is very special
didianita
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he has only sisters, they are nice but I think they are weird. We get along fine
ambersmom
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I HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE my BIL and his BEEEOOOOTTTTCCCHHHH wife....She makes some 'other' people look like angels.
Oh by the way, did I forget to mention I HATTEEEE my inlaws????
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When my sister met my BIL it was not at all who I pictured she would be with. He was very quiet, Southern (nothing against that, just not used to it), and had weird stories to tell. It was hard b/c I;m very close to my sis. But its been 5 years now and I see how well he treats her and I've gotten to know him better and he's a good guy, so we now have a better relationship. We can joke around now. Good luck - maybe things will improve over time.
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I love my brother in klaw (sister's hubby). I called him my brother before they were even engaged. We really hit it off well, and we tease each other and get along just like brother and sister, I always wanted a big brohter, so it's fun.
i do NOT get along with FH's sister or her husband at all, to the point where there are blowus and he tells me I can't see his kids, etc etc. I think if we do see them again, I'm really going to have to put a time limit on it. Like we went up for the weekend for a baby naming and we should ahve left after that was over, we shudnt have stayed to go out to dinner. I mean it sucks becuase we drove a long way, but I think limiting it sometimes the best way to avoid fights.
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My sister isn't married but I am not a big of her current boyfriend. There is just something about him that my mom and I can't put our fingers on but we don't like.
FH has 3 sisters, all younger than us, and as of now they don't bother me!
LIJuneBride
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My DH's brother and sister are not people I would choose to spend time with if we weren't related. I just can't even explain it to you.
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i get along with fh's younger brothers. 21 and 19 - i treat them like they are my brothers and they treat me like the older annoying sister. but we are 10 and 8 years apart, its hard to find things in common. i do wishh he had a sister though.
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I get along pretty well with my BIL, but his FW is a whole different story. She and I are not friends, to put it kindly. She's not a very nice girl and it's not like it's just towards me, she's not nice to anyone but my BIL, and even that's debatable. We limit the time we spend with them because even her presence bothers me. It's unfortunate, and I hope it changes over time, but for now this is the way it needs to be.
