in need of serious advice

in need of serious advice

Re: in need of serious advice

It sounds like depression...I have 2 friends that have those issues. They are both slightly medicated but the key is for them to be able to talk about their problems. Try to get him to open up to u....express your concerns and love for him...any little thing helps!

Re: in need of serious advice

You just really need to sit him down and talk to him. You have to be the one to help him break the wall down. Perhaps suggest counseling! Although if he is the silent type this all might be a bit tough, but you know him better than anyone! You know how to help him let you back in! Does he need to see a Dr. about his back??

Re: in need of serious advice

I think you should sit down and talk to him about it. FH doesn't suffer from depression but he lets things build up sometimes. I sat down and said that he can't hold things in because when you hold things in and don't let me know that it will just explode into something bigger than it actually is. You are not a mind reader and you should just say that you are concerned about him and you aren't trying to go against him in anyway. Hope things get better!!! HTH