Inconsiderate?

So, my Bachelorette Party is tomorrow night. My MOH and Future Sister in Law planned everything out and got the limo for the night based on how many girls are coming out and everyone was ok with how much the limo was going to be. Yesterday my sister contacted my MOH and told her that the limo was too expensive and she was backing out and was going to take the train instead. This morning my other sister contacts my MOH and tells her the same thing.
IMO, if they knew they wouldn't have been able to afford it they should have been straight foward from the get go. Now my MOH and Sister in Law have to try and get a smaller limo. And I'm pi$$ed off because this is so typical of my one sister. Do I say something to her, or do I just let it go?

Don't let it ruin your time tomorrow !!!!!!!!! Say something on sunday ..... But I would say something. Just don't let them know you know about it right now ! I know you are pissed ...but just play it off and enjoy your time out !!!!!!!!!!!!!
That is JMO !!!!!!!!

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Posted by angels914

Don't let it ruin your time tomorrow !!!!!!!!! Say something on sunday ..... But I would say something. Just don't let them know you know about it right now ! I know you are pissed ...but just play it off and enjoy your time out !!!!!!!!!!!!!
That is JMO !!!!!!!!

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I agree, you have to say something to them because what they did is rude, but don't let it ruin your great day!

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Posted by squeekietoy

So, my Bachelorette Party is tomorrow night. My MOH and Future Sister in Law planned everything out and got the limo for the night based on how many girls are coming out and everyone was ok with how much the limo was going to be. Yesterday my sister contacted my MOH and told her that the limo was too expensive and she was backing out and was going to take the train instead. This morning my other sister contacts my MOH and tells her the same thing.
IMO, if they knew they wouldn't have been able to afford it they should have been straight foward from the get go. Now my MOH and Sister in Law have to try and get a smaller limo. And I'm pi$$ed off because this is so typical of my one sister. Do I say something to her, or do I just let it go?

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Honestly, I think this is pretty typical. I planned a friend's bachelorette party last month and had it way worse than you. We all live in the city so we didn't have to worry about paying to get a limo or anything. We had girls who said they couldn't afford the $70 for dinner, 2-hours unlimited drinking...and this included paying for the bride, tax and tip! One girl came and just watched us eat. Another girl came, drank our margaritas, and then gave us $5. I wanted to slap her silly.

So I think you're having an easy time - at least they will pay for the actual bachelorette party, even if they won't pay for the limo. Just remember that economic times are hard right now so try to be considerate of that.

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Posted by JJC

I agree...being that they are family you can def say something. i have heard these stories from friends about people backing out at the last minute and I just cant imagine it! How rude! Either you can or you cant...not yes then no! Now the other girls will get stuck paying more right?

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My fiancee is paying the difference because he doesn't want everyone else paying more. Still, he shouldn't have to do that because of them.

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Posted by Cacarina

I'd be really pissed. I mean they are your sisters!!! They should be up for anything...this is your Bachelorette party. I would totally say something, it is not right. Its one thing if its your friends, but your sisters?!?!?! Not right, IMO!

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ITA!!!! That's just not right, definitely say something to both of them but do it after tomorrow night, don't let them spoil your bachelorette party, but I would definitely let them know how rude and inconsiderate they were, not only to you but to your MOH and FSIL who took the time out to plan it all.

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Posted by JJC

I agree...being that they are family you can def say something. i have heard these stories from friends about people backing out at the last minute and I just cant imagine it! How rude! Either you can or you cant...not yes then no! Now the other girls will get stuck paying more right?

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ITA! I would be really pissed! Dont let it ruin your day but I would say something to them on Sunday.

[Just remember that economic times are hard right now so try to be considerate of that.

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I totally get that. I'm not unsympathetic to that fact. I just feel that if they knew that they wouldn't be able to afford the limo from the beginning, then they shouldn't have said that they would contribute to it. KWIM?

dont jump the gun just yet.... was this decision to get the limo before or after the whole economic crisis? i have tons of friends that have changed their spending habits since they dont have job security... my friend just the other day said ... ya know, im not sure i can even be in your bp anymore... things are tight and lots are making sacrficies which are smart decisions.... believe me, i totally agree that it sux that they did that to your moh.... and id be totally pissed if i was a member of the bp and found out id have to shell out more $$ for a limo bc 2 people backed out... but there ARe other ways around the situation, dont fret just yet

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Posted by JJC

I agree...being that they are family you can def say something. i have heard these stories from friends about people backing out at the last minute and I just cant imagine it! How rude! Either you can or you cant...not yes then no! Now the other girls will get stuck paying more right?

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Say something.....i have 6 sisters, not only would i scream my brains out, id probably kick their arse too! Oh, and call my mother and make her scream at them!! I would not be able to wait tlll after, i guess im sick of sisters!! But if it would ruin your night, def wait till sunday. BUT SAY SOMETHING!

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

dont jump the gun just yet.... was this decision to get the limo before or after the whole economic crisis? i have tons of friends that have changed their spending habits since they dont have job security... my friend just the other day said ... ya know, im not sure i can even be in your bp anymore... things are tight and lots are making sacrficies which are smart decisions.... believe me, i totally agree that it sux that they did that to your moh.... and id be totally pissed if i was a member of the bp and found out id have to shell out more $$ for a limo bc 2 people backed out... but there ARe other ways around the situation, dont fret just yet

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They just booked the limo 3 weeks ago. This wasn't something that was planned months ago. Like I said earlier, I'm not unsympathetic to people having money issues. I'm not rich by any means, but, they shouldn't have said that they were going to chip in for the limo if they knew they could not afford it. I mean, I wouldn't do it. Most sensible people would be upfront.

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Posted by squeekietoy

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

dont jump the gun just yet.... was this decision to get the limo before or after the whole economic crisis? i have tons of friends that have changed their spending habits since they dont have job security... my friend just the other day said ... ya know, im not sure i can even be in your bp anymore... things are tight and lots are making sacrficies which are smart decisions.... believe me, i totally agree that it sux that they did that to your moh.... and id be totally pissed if i was a member of the bp and found out id have to shell out more $$ for a limo bc 2 people backed out... but there ARe other ways around the situation, dont fret just yet

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They just booked the limo 3 weeks ago. This wasn't something that was planned months ago. Like I said earlier, I'm not unsympathetic to people having money issues. I'm not rich by any means, but, they shouldn't have said that they were going to chip in for the limo if they knew they could not afford it. I mean, I wouldn't do it. Most sensible people would be upfront.

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gotcha... sry i didnt read the other posts.. didnt realize it was said already