I was thinking of giving the bridesmaids' their gifts night of bachelorette party.
FH and I aren't doing rh din. We can't afford it. FH parent's said they would help out and do that and now they cant. Shocker.
OR...I was thinking of having the bp come to my house for cocktails and give it to them then... But I still live with my father, and he really doesn't like people to come over since my mother passed
Do you think the bachelorette party is a stupid idea?
I kinda feel bad for the other girls that are going and not getting a gift? Maybe they'll figure out its the bp gift??
mosh424
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I don't think giving them out the bachlorette party is a bad idea. just say i want to give out my bp gifts since we aren't haven't a rehearsal dinner. no big deal. i wouldn't be offended at all!!! Good Luck
Yankees2323
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i dont think its a bad idea... its the bridal party gifts not like ur giving gifts out for nothing
RitasEngaged
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That is a great idea. The other people who are going that are not in the BP will not be expecting a gift so don't worry about that.
gina409
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i think its a great idea they will love them no matter when u give it to them
LnF0405
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You can always give them the morning of the wedding when you ladies meet...
bridej9
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Posted by LnF0405
You can always give them the morning of the wedding when you ladies meet...
I think this is a great idea.
Brendanzgirl
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You could set up another time to meet with them if you really feel uncomfortable doing it in front of the other girls. Maybe an afternoon lunch, that would really be special for them... or I like the idea of giving it the morning of, unless it is like a hair clip you want them to use with thier hair or somehting that requires them to have it prior to the day of...
HTH
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I think it's fine to give it at the bach party if that's what you want. Also, as suggested above, I've received my BP gift the morning of a wedding I was in.
We're not having a RD either but I think I'm going to do a luncheon the weekend before and give it to them then.
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i'm trying to plan a dinner or lunch a week or so before the wedding to give the BP their gifts, b/c we aren't having a RD either. I was thinking about the bachelorette party too. i just dont want anyone to lose anything! so i don't think it would be bad giving it to them at the party.
