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Invitation dilemma

natiepie1028 Posted:

Invitation dilemma

Ok, I feel like I am having some dilemmas when it comes to inviting work people to my wedding. I work in a relatively small law firm. Most of us are friendly with each other, but some people aren’t. For the most part I am inviting all the partners (4 of them) and some others lawyers and secretaries. I can’t invite everyone (because of money issues) nor do I want to invite everyone (because I am not close to some people). The thing is there is one particular person who I have been friendly with for the most part but not as friendly as she thinks we are. Don’t get me wrong I do like her but I’m not sure if I would want her at my wedding and there are a few reasons for me not wanting her to go. First, and foremost, she was the only one in at my job that did not congratulate me on my engagement, which did bother me. And second, working with her is not a fun thing to do. She is one of those backstabbing kind of people. She would rat you out in a minute if something happened around here. I just do not want to hurt her because that’s not even close to what I would ever want to happen. There are more than a few people here that are not getting invited. I just can’t it would cost too much. Anyway, I just don’t know what to do. I guess I have some time to think about it.

SUNSHINE24 Posted:

Re: Invitation dilemma

I had the same kind of grouch at my job. I didnt invite her. I work for a large company so i invited the people that i would like to see at my wedding, and left it up to them. I dont have enough money to just make up relationships with these people, and im sure they would do the same.
People who have been married understand that you cant invite everyone.
And the people that i did invite arent even coming....
12-3Princess Posted:

Re: Invitation dilemma

do you work with her on a daily basis? I wouldn't invite anyone I didn't want there unless it would be really obvious to single her out.

natiepie1028 Posted:

Re: Invitation dilemma


Posted by 12-3Princess

do you work with her on a daily basis? I wouldn't invite anyone I didn't want there unless it would be really obvious to single her out.



Yes i work with her on a daily basis. She is the main paralegal. I just dont want to hurt her feelings but there will be at least 9 or 10 people not being invited. So it just wont be her.

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