I was wondering what the proper etiquette for invitations would be if FMIL is widowed and not remarried. Would it be:
Mrs. Jane Doe Ms. Jane Doe Mrs. John Doe
Stacey1403
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either Mrs. Jane Doe or Mrs. John Doe are acceptable
lilmrs
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I think either are acceptable I will be using Mrs. John Doe though
kittyke
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I think Mrs. Jane Doe is best.
karen32
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I think Mrs. Jane Joe is correct. I'm not sure I would be comfortable using a deceased person's name on the invitation. JMO!!
Classy Calligraphy by June
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The age of the person usually makes a difference. Many older women (the over 70 crowd) many times would prefer the formality of Mrs. John Doe to honor their late husband. Also they just feel more comfortable with this more formal name. They may feel it's a matter of respect, too.
Other women, no matter what age like the more modern or contemporary approach. It's an matter of knowing your guests and doing what you think will make them comfortable and you happy.
