Invitation etiquette - advice please

AlliCatB Posted: Feb 12, 2007 11:21 PM

Invitation etiquette - advice please

ok I took this down now bc I'm paranoid FH is a snoooooooop

Future Mrs. Posted: Feb 12, 2007 11:24 PM

Re: Invitation etiquette - advice please

Definitely send the invitation.
They won't come, but you'll certainly get a gift!
If you don't send an invitation, don't expect a gift.

Also, for FMIL,,,,,,just send the invitation. I know they're expensive, but just do it and be thankful that they're not actually coming. it will make her happy

AeroJenn Posted: Feb 12, 2007 11:25 PM

Re: Invitation etiquette - advice please

To be honest, people that we knew wouldnt be able to attend, we still sent an invitation out of politeness. I think it would be a little rude not to send one just because you know they cant come. It cant hurt. Plus, you might get a gift out of it.
It's only another few $$. I would just send them.

Espo22 Posted: Feb 12, 2007 11:29 PM

Re: Invitation etiquette - advice please

I say let him handle it. If it is family then yes i guess send it, others depending on how well she even knows them since you said she also invited someone that she bumped into after not seeing them for years. That is definitely something he needs to talk to her about, especially if you had to cut down the list on friends you invite.