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Invitation Question

shoegal68 Posted:

Invitation Question

A friend of mine is in the middle of a bitter divorce. her husband is not living at home. They are separated. How do I address the envelope do I use Ms or Mrs? Do I still use her married name? I am not too sure if she is dating yet. Do I add and guest ????

Help !


KK Holiday Posted:

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if you feel comfortable enough to do this why dont you ask her what she prefers to be called? ask her if she is changing her name back.

it seems to be the easiest way rather than to guess
skinny237 Posted:

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Posted by jnkcrunk

if you feel comfortable enough to do this why dont you ask her what she prefers to be called? ask her if she is changing her name back.

it seems to be the easiest way rather than to guess



I agree. You could ever email her, if it's easier.
missliss Posted:

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I agree. Also, inviting her with a guest is your choice really....if you have the space, why not? If you don't have the space then don't.

JoesFutureWife Posted:

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I would defiitely ask her which she prefers. I think that is the best way so no one gets offended. Even though it may be uncomforable to ask her, i think it is better than stressing over how to address it.
debismom Posted:

Re: Invitation Question


Posted by jnkcrunk

if you feel comfortable enough to do this why dont you ask her what she prefers to be called? ask her if she is changing her name back.

it seems to be the easiest way rather than to guess



I agree, and I think the one being invited would appreciate it that you took the time, to care enough, to ask. Mary MOB
shoegal68 Posted:

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the problem is she is really having a tough time. she rarely talks about her pending divorce. whenever i bring it up, it gets her upset to talk about it.

i guess maybe i wil try bringing it up.


thanks again !!

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