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invitation question HELP

zoe282 Posted:

invitation question HELP

Ok, in my invitations I am going to have the invitation, the response card, the card that will have addresses and hotel info, and also the reception card. On the reception card doi separate times for cocktail hour and reception or do I just put 'at 6 o'clock in teh evening' which would be the start time for cocktail hour and assume people know the reception follows. What are you doing?

missliss Posted:

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Put the cocktail hour time. People know the drill.
madseason Posted:

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oh crapola!!!

Good post bc i think i made a boo boo!

I put adult reception starting at 7pm....but thats cocktail hour! I think i worded mine wrong!! But you only have to put the sgtart time of CH
Soon2BMrs.T Posted:

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Put the cocktail hour!!! Truly that is when things start...

zoe282 Posted:

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Thanks guys! My dad said I needed it on there b/c some people don't feel they need to go to cocktail hour, but I didn't know how to word it otherwise...

minibride08 Posted:

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Please join us for cocktails, dinner & dancing

NAME OF RH & ADDRESS

At six o'clock in the evening

missliss Posted:

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Posted by zoe282

Thanks guys! My dad said I needed it on there b/c some people don't feel they need to go to cocktail hour, but I didn't know how to word it otherwise...



Yeah, only put the cocktail hour time but write it as the whole event start time, don't distinguish between the two. So if you're CH starts at 6 pm, put Reception at 6 PM, or however you word it and that's it.
zoe282 Posted:

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Posted by minibride08

Please join us for cocktails, dinner & dancing

NAME OF RH & ADDRESS

At six o'clock in the evening




I copied yours...but my dad said how he wants cocktail hour and I like the adult reception thing so everyone knows no kids...but is it necessary? I liked how you did it.
Wifeynella Posted:

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i was wondering that too, so im putting cocktail hour starts at seven o'clock in the evening. so there is no question

zoe282 Posted:

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If i did do both would it be
Cocktail hour at 6 O'clock in the evening
Adult reception to follow

missliss Posted:

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Posted by zoe282


Posted by minibride08

Please join us for cocktails, dinner & dancing

NAME OF RH & ADDRESS

At six o'clock in the evening




I copied yours...but my dad said how he wants cocktail hour and I like the adult reception thing so everyone knows no kids...but is it necessary? I liked how you did it.



Put reception....or the way minibride did it is great also. Just don't put cocktail 'hour'. The reception card is to tell people what time the whole entire party starts, and the CH is part of the party. As far as the kids, if you didn't invite the kids (meaning you only put Mr. and Mrs. on the invitations), then ppl should not assume that their kids are invited. If you get RSVPs back and ppl add their kids then you or your parents call them and politely tell them that the party is for the invitees (adults) only.
zoe282 Posted:

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Posted by missliss


Posted by zoe282


Posted by minibride08

Please join us for cocktails, dinner & dancing

NAME OF RH & ADDRESS

At six o'clock in the evening




I copied yours...but my dad said how he wants cocktail hour and I like the adult reception thing so everyone knows no kids...but is it necessary? I liked how you did it.



Put reception....or the way minibride did it is great also. Just don't put cocktail 'hour'. The reception card is to tell people what time the whole entire party starts, and the CH is part of the party. As far as the kids, if you didn't invite the kids (meaning you only put Mr. and Mrs. on the invitations), then ppl should not assume that their kids are invited. If you get RSVPs back and ppl add their kids then you or your parents call them and politely tell them that the party is for the invitees (adults) only.



Ok so my original like mini bride is best' at 6 o'clock in the evening....good!
snwb08 Posted:

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Posted by missliss


Posted by zoe282


Posted by minibride08

Please join us for cocktails, dinner & dancing

NAME OF RH & ADDRESS

At six o'clock in the evening




I copied yours...but my dad said how he wants cocktail hour and I like the adult reception thing so everyone knows no kids...but is it necessary? I liked how you did it.



Put reception....or the way minibride did it is great also. Just don't put cocktail 'hour'. The reception card is to tell people what time the whole entire party starts, and the CH is part of the party. As far as the kids, if you didn't invite the kids (meaning you only put Mr. and Mrs. on the invitations), then ppl should not assume that their kids are invited. If you get RSVPs back and ppl add their kids then you or your parents call them and politely tell them that the party is for the invitees (adults) only.



i agree with this. I was torn whether to do 'adult reception' but i don't love the way it sounds.

i'm not doing a reception card since our ceremony is at the same place - i'm just putting reception immediately following
bride-in-training08 Posted:

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I think mine will say Cocktails 7pm formal reception to follow, but I don't think you need a start time for both

madseason Posted:

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Posted by zoe282


Posted by minibride08

Please join us for cocktails, dinner & dancing

NAME OF RH & ADDRESS

At six o'clock in the evening




I copied yours...but my dad said how he wants cocktail hour and I like the adult reception thing so everyone knows no kids...but is it necessary? I liked how you did it.



I put it bc i thought it was necessary. Even tho my invites say mr and mrs, I do have ppl who are traveling and might assume its ok to bring their kids bc they are traveling, but my list exploded to waaaaaaay over my max... I also know my family and ive read too many horror stories about other brides receiving their rsvps and having to make phone calls.
madseason Posted:

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lol wait im confused

my ceremony is at 3pm....

I put adult reception at 7pm.....

so ppl know that that's the time to arrive at the RH for coctail hour??
mRm2008 Posted:

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I think I am wording mine something to the effect:
Cocktails at 5pm followed by an evening of dinner and dancing
missliss Posted:

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Posted by madseason

lol wait im confused

my ceremony is at 3pm....

I put adult reception at 7pm.....

so ppl know that that's the time to arrive at the RH for coctail hour??



Yes. You already have it right on yours, from what it reads in your other post.

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