I received an invitation to my friends wedding (This girl I spent the past 2 yrs with in grad school)
Now, she knows I'm engaged... seen the ring... we've talked endlessly about our fh's to one another...
Now, I get the invitation and the inside envelope only has my name on it, but there is a space on the response card that says # attending _____ Am I to assume that FH is/isnt invited??? Should I ask her??? I feel kinda stupid... I dont want to send her back '2 attending' if she didnt want that, but I sit here scratchin my head wondering why she didnt at least put Guest....
Any suggestions???
UPDATE:::: So I asked her and she said 'ahhhh so it was youu!!!!' she knew she forgot to put 'and guest' on someone's, but couldnt rem who and was like of course you're both invited!!!!' I knew she wasnt rude like that... Haha
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Since she only put your name and not 'and guest' I'd think she only intended on inviting you, but if you have a relationship with her where you can ask her without feeling awkward, then I'd say ask her if FH is invited also.
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If it has only your name on it then im pretty sure she only invited you (which i think is rude since she knows you're engaged) if you talk you can ask her.
I would ask her because that is messed up if she didnt invite FH .. However I wouldnt just put 2 attending because I have seen brides in BHB complain about huests doing that ,,HTH
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yeah definitely ask her... if you talk to each other about it all the time, then you should definitely ask her about it. Maybe it was an accident?
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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Honestly, what I think happened is that she doesnt know proper etiquette (shes not big into all the wedding details... she got engaged in may about 1 week after me and is getting married this sept) so she prob just never thought that she had to specify ...we'll see... i'm gonna ask he 2morrow
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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Honestly, what I think happened is that she doesnt know proper etiquette (shes not big into all the wedding details... she got engaged in may about 1 week after me and is getting married this sept) so she prob just never thought that she had to specify ...we'll see... i'm gonna ask he 2morrow
ETA: Can you girls imagine planning a wedding in 3 1/2 months!?!?
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I know... I'm nervous planning a wedding in almost 2 years, I cant imagine 3 1/2 months. I would probably pull my hair out by the end of it all
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i would just ask to see if he is invited first b/4 sending it back.
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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mdawg
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Not what you would think...
I received an invitation to my friends wedding (This girl I spent the past 2 yrs with in grad school)
Now, she knows I'm engaged... seen the ring... we've talked endlessly about our fh's to one another...
Now, I get the invitation and the inside envelope only has my name on it, but there is a space on the response card that says # attending _____ Am I to assume that FH is/isnt invited??? Should I ask her??? I feel kinda stupid... I dont want to send her back '2 attending' if she didnt want that, but I sit here scratchin my head wondering why she didnt at least put Guest....
Any suggestions???
UPDATE:::: So I asked her and she said 'ahhhh so it was youu!!!!' she knew she forgot to put 'and guest' on someone's, but couldnt rem who and was like of course you're both invited!!!!' I knew she wasnt rude like that... Haha
see???? WE TOLD YOU!!! just a mistake. YAY for things being cleared up now!
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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Honestly, what I think happened is that she doesnt know proper etiquette (shes not big into all the wedding details... she got engaged in may about 1 week after me and is getting married this sept) so she prob just never thought that she had to specify ...we'll see... i'm gonna ask he 2morrow
That is crazy....is there a bun in her oven thats the only way I would ever rush my wedding planning...thats how long my brother had to plan his...engaged in aug married in november SIL was 5 mnts prego
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Honestly, what I think happened is that she doesnt know proper etiquette (shes not big into all the wedding details... she got engaged in may about 1 week after me and is getting married this sept) so she prob just never thought that she had to specify ...we'll see... i'm gonna ask he 2morrow
That is crazy....is there a bun in her oven thats the only way I would ever rush my wedding planning...thats how long my brother had to plan his...engaged in aug married in november SIL was 5 mnts prego
Well kind of similiar situation... I believe he has a student visa, but just graduated so I think she needs to rush everything so she can stay in the country.. I could be wrong, but it has something to do with that! You do what you have to do right?!?!
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Posted by MegBert
Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Honestly, what I think happened is that she doesnt know proper etiquette (shes not big into all the wedding details... she got engaged in may about 1 week after me and is getting married this sept) so she prob just never thought that she had to specify ...we'll see... i'm gonna ask he 2morrow
That is crazy....is there a bun in her oven thats the only way I would ever rush my wedding planning...thats how long my brother had to plan his...engaged in aug married in november SIL was 5 mnts prego
Well kind of similiar situation... I believe he has a student visa, but just graduated so I think she needs to rush everything so she can stay in the country.. I could be wrong, but it has something to do with that! You do what you have to do right?!?!
Oh def....I mean if I could id be at town hall right now so FH doesn havent to pay for health insurance but...we can't we have very old school parents
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I'm glad everything worked out and it was just a mix up!!
kabo0831
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see it was just a mistake but how can she forget when she knews you and your FH... very wried
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see it was just a mistake but how can she forget when she knews you and your FH... very wried
I dont quite get it either, but I do believe her... She knows I would not know anyone else at her wedding. Maybe she was just in a rush when doing the invites or had a million things on her mind... I could see that when you're planning a wedding in 3 months
