Ok, so, am I right that each adult member of the house gets an invite? My FH has his aunt and uncle whose 2 grown up (in their 20s) kids live w/them. One had a girlfriend who is also invited.
So that would make 3 invites!!!!
Is it OK if we put the aunt/uncle and single daughter on one invite and the son/gf on another?
Is that bad form :( Sees kinda extreme? or nonsensical? to send more than 1 invite?
Or do I even have it right?
We're inputting addresses right now. Fun.
Mrs B to Be
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I would give each kid an invite.....when I was in my earlier 20's I always got my own invite with a guest regardless of whether or not I was dating someone, of coarse only if i was seeing someone serious did i bring a date, i never brought a date just to bring one, it was family they didnt need me to bring insignificant people. But I believe the rule of thumb would be everyone over the age of 18 gets their own invite
LauraD419
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If you're sending the son and gf their own invite..the daughter should get her own too if she's over 18!
PegaLega
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Over 18 gets their own invitation...even if it means 5 invites going to the same place.
lizzzie35
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This is too funny because I was just thinking the same thing! Thanks for asking for me!
And thanks for the replies!
LoriBeth2728
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Hee hee, no problem Lizzie!!
Thanks, I'll be sure that gets changed!
bluegreen08
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snowcat
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we sent them to every person over the age of 18 in a household- I had houses where I sent 3 envelopes- as frustrating as it was, it is etiquette
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All of our guests are over 18. A few of our cousins live at home with their parents. We sent the household a Save the Date but we sent each guest their own invitation.
You'll get different answers on what you should/shouldn't do but in the end you're gonna do what is best for you.
When I was invited to weddings after I turned 18 I always got my own invite. I don't think I would have minded if I didn't... but if my brother who lived at home got his own, and I didn't...that might have bothered me.
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Posted by bemyyoko
All of our guests are over 18. A few of our cousins live at home with their parents. We sent the household a Save the Date but we sent each guest their own invitation.
You'll get different answers on what you should/shouldn't do but in the end you're gonna do what is best for you.
When I was invited to weddings after I turned 18 I always got my own invite. I don't think I would have minded if I didn't... but if my brother who lived at home got his own, and I didn't...that might have bothered me.
I was thinking that too... wouldn't she get offended... then bummed because she doesn't have a bf, that's why she didn't get the invite? I'd be po'd too!!!!
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We just had that same problem tonight. We were makin up our list and I think it's best to send a separate invite for anyone over 18.
