Invitations went out over 3 weeks ago...

glinda_goodwitch Posted: May 03, 2006 08:47 AM

Invitations went out over 3 weeks ago...

and only 2 of 14 of our BP has responded. My MOH hasn't even responded yet.

angnick Posted: May 03, 2006 08:50 AM

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isn't that the most annoying thing.. not all of my bm's have responded either.. UGGGHHHHHHh

kissy27 Posted: May 03, 2006 08:51 AM

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It definately is annoying...We had some BP members wait until right before the RSVP date to send it in! I guess they figured we knew they were coming But still??

SuzBride Posted: May 03, 2006 08:53 AM

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my one BM asked if she needed to respond, since I know she is coming w/o a guest. I told her that if I didn't want her to respond, I wouldn't have included the addressed and stamped RSVP.

Happybride2005 Posted: May 03, 2006 08:59 AM

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Posted by glinda_goodwitch

and only 2 of 14 of our BP has responded. My MOH hasn't even responded yet.

my sister didn't send hers in until the last week

johnsae Posted: May 03, 2006 10:33 AM

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the bp were among the LAST ones to rsvp for us

lacey&mark Posted: May 03, 2006 01:31 PM

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lol we are stil waiting for BP replys as well. scary thing is my MOH/sister mailed hers out the day after she received the invite (last thursday) and we still have not receved it! its only going from selden to holbrook! i got out of state ones back but not hers. snail mail stinks. ~lacey

Kerrycec Posted: May 03, 2006 01:35 PM

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yea, some members (ie the guys) took forever. My brother was bringing a date, then solo, then date.

cindyandkevin Posted: May 03, 2006 01:37 PM

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My RSVP date was Monday and we still haven't gotten back responses from about half of our BP!! They figure 'you know I'm coming', but still don't waste that stamp!!!!!!

tbtmickey Posted: May 03, 2006 02:25 PM

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I just marked them as yes before I even sent their invitations out! Until you've planned a wedding you have no idea, so I cut them some slack

scorps1027 Posted: May 03, 2006 02:41 PM

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the BP is usually last to respond, because they figure you know they ar ecoming so they get lazy about sending it out!

bayla Posted: May 03, 2006 03:07 PM

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they all prob figure that you know they will be there...my FSIL (one of the BM) just called to see if i received her response, she wasnt going to send it but she did in case i wanted to keep them for keepsakes.

meliwhit Posted: May 03, 2006 04:34 PM

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Oh no! Can't believe that! I feellike I would respond right away! I know I am going to get really frustrated if people don't respond!

mka06 Posted: May 03, 2006 05:28 PM

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I'm in the same boat! It is annoying. I know they think you know they are coming... but still, it should be a no brainer for them to send it back bc they've already known about it forever!!!!

beautyq115 Posted: May 03, 2006 09:47 PM

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When I was in a wedding last summer I kept forgetting to send my back...I might have been one of the last ones...I know bad BM...BUT are these girls married??? Unless they have been through the process they probably don't know how stressful RSVPs can be

DUCKS2001 Posted: May 03, 2006 10:00 PM

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oh not to worry you know they are comming mine are doing the same

msnora Posted: May 04, 2006 12:01 AM

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maybe they do that becuase they don't think they have to respond ?????

glinda_goodwitch Posted: May 04, 2006 01:35 AM

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Okay, well 3 of the girls (including my MOH) sent theirs back and I got them today (well, my mom got them and told me). So I feel a little better now.