Ok, so my little sister who is also my MOH just decided to 'take a break' from her boyfriend of almost 3 years. So here's the dilemma, I became friendly with her boyfriend and his parents and they attended our engagement party (and gave us awesome gifts!) and I already sent them an STD. But I don't want to make my sister feel awkward. She said not to invite them, but they already got the STD. What do I do???
chapel06
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I think they might take the hint and not attend. You know them better than anyone, but maybe they would feel akward attending and wont come.
mskittynj
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They already got the STD, I would feel ****** not inviting them b/c essentially the STD means you're inviting that person to your wedding. Not sending an invitation is like taking back your invitation to begin wth....I dunno that is a sticki situation!!! Good Luck!!! XOXOXO Kitty
lauren721
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I say invite them and they will probably not come b/c they will feel awkward. At least you will look like the bigger person and you will not feel guilty!
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I say invite them and they will probably not come b/c they will feel awkward. At least you will look like the bigger person and you will not feel guilty!
Agreed.
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I think you should invite them- and let them make the best decision depending on the situation-- your wedding is in June and it's only February- it's easier to invite them, than to add them back on the list if your sis andher BF get back together.
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I think you should think of your sisters feelings. I am sure she would feel very uncomfortable with them around and make it difficult to enjoy the day. I am sure you also were going to invite her BF, but obviously things have changed and his parents will realize this. You don't want her to feel uncomforable because you will be relying on her to help you thorugh the day!! As for the save the date... well this is why I decided not to do them!!! Hope it all works out for your sister
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I say invite them and they will probably not come b/c they will feel awkward. At least you will look like the bigger person and you will not feel guilty!
Couldn't have said it better myself!
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Posted by randella
I think you should invite them- and let them make the best decision depending on the situation-- your wedding is in June and it's only February- it's easier to invite them, than to add them back on the list if your sis andher BF get back together.
i agree. especially since you sent them a STD and there's still time until the wedding for things to change one way or the other
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IMHO I think that you should talk to your sister and find out what she thinks. If she's your MOH she's there to support you and help you make the neccessary decisions. I'm sure she'll help you make everything perfect for your day.
JLP
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You should invite them. You may know them because of your sister, but you have obviously built a relationship with them of your own.
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You should invite them. You may know them because of your sister, but you have obviously built a relationship with them of your own.
I agree with this, but you have a litte time to see what happens with your sister. Maybe things will change.
cjb88
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i tihnk you should still invite them... you dont have to invite him...
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IMHO I think that you should talk to your sister and find out what she thinks. If she's your MOH she's there to support you and help you make the neccessary decisions. I'm sure she'll help you make everything perfect for your day.
I agree.... obviously if they never get back together, who cares what you look like to them! DEFINITLEY let your sister decide. If I was your sister, I would not want them around and if they get back together, invite them then... do you honestly think they are expecting to be invited.. you never know though, you might invite them thinking they won't come and they will.... awkward!
