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Invite friend with guest

odissa41 Posted:

Invite friend with guest

I have a friend that used to work with me.
She had been dating a guy, moved in with him and now they broke up and are selling their house.
She still knows about 20 people from my job.
She's not dating anyone now and I dont want to pay for her to find a stranger to bring just for a date.
Do I have to invite her with a guest or is that rude?
help?
chellynyc Posted:

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Personally, I think she should be invited w/a guest.

jessandjimiswedding Posted:

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i'm doing the rule, what you do for one you do for another. i opted to invite guests who are single to NOT bring a guest. i feel the same way, i'm not paying for a stranger who i don't know to come to my wedding. cuz then that's not fair to my B-listers.

heatherandrichie Posted:

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Posted by chellynyc

Personally, I think she should be invited w/a guest.


I agree
neener1211 Posted:

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Posted by jessandjimiswedding

i'm doing the rule, what you do for one you do for another. i opted to invite guests who are single to NOT bring a guest. i feel the same way, i'm not paying for a stranger who i don't know to come to my wedding. cuz then that's not fair to my B-listers.



I am doing the same thing. I am only having people who have serious relationships have guests. I just don't have the room at the tables, or in my pocket to pay for people I don't know.

This is a personal preference though. You do what you feel you have to do. Good luck!
odissa41 Posted:

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I'm so torn bc its true, thats not fair to my b list people either, but its like, there has to be a cut off at some point. my guest list is close to 250 and Im no Donald trump here lol
I dont know...I still have a little time to think about it.
Thanks for the advice though!

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