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Are you inviting your OOT guests to your shower? I had them on my list because I didn't want them to feel left out, I know that they won't be able to come....but I don't want them to feel bad or obligated. What do you think? Thanks!!
I was thinking the same thing too.. I don't want to leave them out, yet I don't want them to feel obligated to get me a gift either. I know it is not possible for them to come all the way to the east coast just for a bridal shower.
I had thought I should, but then after talking to some family members, decided not too - I was afraid of having people feel left out, but then I figured I didn't want them to feel like I was asking for a gift knowing they couldn't be there. There were a few OOT people who were very close friends/family who were invited because I knew they were planning on being there no matter what.
I will be at least inviting the OOT guests I am close with. For those near and dear, I at least want to give them the opportunity regardless of whether they will be able to make it. I will leave the ball in their court, as they say!
I put any family members from oot on the list and left friends out.
I know my mom did not. We just invited our close family actually. I have never met anyone other than his mom and dad. So I am sure they would be just as comfortable as I would if they were there.
yes we are inviting the oot guests - if they come that is great if not they dont feel slighted
