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Invite question

I Love my bear Posted:

Invite question

Do I need to make a meat/fish option on the RSVP??? I don't see anyone doing this anymore but don't I have to tell the RH how many plates of what?

MyLobster Posted:

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What RH?? I don't think any halls do that anymore.

Snick n Nick Posted:

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ask your RH--we were wondering this too, but our RH said they just take the orders at the wedding--they don't need a count! I had a friend who got married at a country club recently and she did need it....I would check with your RH!

I Love my bear Posted:

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They never mentioned it, but I was just looking at invites and saw it as an option and was like do I need that?

ChristineAaron08 Posted:

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Ask your RH, but you probably dont need to make guests choose now. Most RH just have them order at the wedding. Its probably just an option b/c they do it outside NY still.

Espo22 Posted:

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i have never seen this done in NYC, although i have seen it ALOT in other states but i wouldn't worry about it, your guests won't expect this at all

DavaDay Posted:

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I had to choose an entree at a friend's wedding recently when it was a tented wedding and she brought in an outside caterer who was contracted only for that day. At an RH with a kitchen, they have more than enough on hand and you usually don't have to choose before.

Rejjie Posted:

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Glad you asked the question. I just assumed I'd have to do this. I'd be VERY happy not to!

Snowflake08 Posted:

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i have never seen that
how do i know what i want to eat in a month??
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Snowflake08

i have never seen that
how do i know what i want to eat in a month??



exactly, and what about rh's that have 9-11 choices
Luvbsb4eva Posted:

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Posted by Snowflake08

i have never seen that
how do i know what i want to eat in a month??



haha yeah... I think i'll be in the mood to eat chicken on this day... right! Then i'll be staring at everyone else's fish wishing I ordered that!
BNBride60 Posted:

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I was recently invited to a wedding in NJ and they did have that. But then, once we got to the hall, they came around and ordered and we didn't have to abide by what we put on the card - it was weird.

Wifeynella Posted:

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99% of RHs in this area don't do it anymore.

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