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Invite question: do I put my last name?

Bunnymonkey Posted:

Invite question: do I put my last name?

Current invite text:
Silly question: Nick and I both have the same last name as our parents, and I have read that on the invite, the brides name goes first and middle. I don't have a middle name, so I put my last name in - would that sound stupid to you? Nick's last name is on there too - this seems uneccesary, but when I take the last names out, it seems naked.

What did you do?


“Grow old along with me, the best is yet to be!”
-Browning

Stephen and Kate XXXX
Joyfully request your presence and blessings
At the marriage of their daughter

Ryanna XXXX

To

Nicholas John XXXX

Son of Nicholas and Carole XXXXX
at
Raphael Vineyards
June 11th, 2005
5:45 pm
Happybride2005 Posted:

Re: Invite question: do I put my last name?

we put our middle name. if we didn't, the invite would say gail renee and gary t. since fh only has an inital has the middle name, we decided to use our last names with it.

melissaandsean Posted:

Re: Invite question: do I put my last name?

I wouldn't put your last name, because it's already stated with your parents.

I would simply put:

Stephen and Kate XXXX
Joyfully request your presence and blessings
At the marriage of their daughter

Ryanna

To

Nicholas John

Son of Nicholas and Carole XXXXX

OR

Stephen and Kate XXXX
Joyfully request your presence and blessings
At the marriage of their daughter

Ryanna

To

Nicholas

Son of Nicholas and Carole XXXXX
orchid24 Posted:

Re: Invite question: do I put my last name?

fi doesn't have a middle name, i mean he just uses his mother's maiden name, so we just used both of our first names--- not too crazy about my middle name anyway.

jpavig Posted:

Re: Invite question: do I put my last name?

I think you can leave out the last names. I think you should only include the last names if it's different from the parents last name.

David'sbride Posted:

Re: Invite question: do I put my last name?


Posted by jpavig

I think you can leave out the last names. I think you should only include the last names if it's different from the parents last name.



Yes, only repeat if different. W are using our first, middle and last but that's because our invite starts with 'Together with their parents'. They are not paying for the wedding per se. Dad gave me a gift of money and FIL's gave us a very generous wedding present by buying all of the materials for our new kitchen.
JBKempf Posted:

Re: Invite question: do I put my last name?

I would just use your first names. I think the repetition of last names doesn't sound right. JMO

BlondeJD Posted:

Re: Invite question: do I put my last name?


Posted by jpavig

I think you can leave out the last names. I think you should only include the last names if it's different from the parents last name.



That's what I've heard as well.
junebride! Posted:

Re: Invite question: do I put my last name?

Seems like you don't need last names...becasue they are the dame!

germai68 Posted:

Re: Invite question: do I put my last name?

I agree. Leave out the last names.

takeoutcook Posted:

Re: Invite question: do I put my last name?

I went with last names. I hate my middle name and didnt like how the invite looked tlooked with just my first name and middle name. . . so I added my last name cause it took emphasis off my middle name, and I thought it made me look older. . .if that makes any sense. I thought referring to me as my first and middle names made me sound like a little kid who just got in trouble.

suebride Posted:

Re: Invite question: do I put my last name?

technically (according to the crane's handbook), i read that you include both your last name and FI's --i only included FI's since his parents are divorced...

katieshope Posted:

Re: Invite question: do I put my last name?

I don't have a middle name either so this is what mine will say:

Mr & Mrs. Thomas XXXXX
request your honour at the marriage of their daughter

Kathryn
to
Patrick A. XXXX

Blah, blah blah

bluesashbride Posted:

Re: Invite question: do I put my last name?

i think its more classic to leave out your last names; i think i would leave them off in you case since they are the same.

randella Posted:

Re: Invite question: do I put my last name?

I would just leave it and not put last names.. Once you see it laid out in your font in a proof you'll be able to tell how it will really look.

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