Invite Questions...Please help

When I address the envelopes for a married couple do I put Mr. & Mrs. Last Name
or Mr. First Name & Mrs. First Name Last Name.

Also on the RSVP cards, are you supposed to put the names of everyone youre inviting in the line? Or one persons name plus a number? Im so confused!

i am doing Mr. & Mrs. 'Husband 1st name & Last Name' i think..

like Mr. & Mrs. Frank Rizzo.....

and for the rsvp cards i am putting a number on the back of each one i think so i can keep track in case they dont write their name on it or something.. im not sure yet

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Posted by o8bride

i am doing Mr. & Mrs. 'Husband 1st name & Last Name' i think..

like Mr. & Mrs. Frank Rizzo.....

and for the rsvp cards i am putting a number on the back of each one i think so i can keep track in case they dont write their name on it or something.. im not sure yet

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Yeah I think IM gonna do that! And are you saying on the RSVP card youre going to leave the
M_________ line blank for them to fill out? How will they know how many guests theyre allowed to bring?

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Posted by o8bride

i am doing Mr. & Mrs. 'Husband 1st name & Last Name' i think..

like Mr. & Mrs. Frank Rizzo.....

and for the rsvp cards i am putting a number on the back of each one i think so i can keep track in case they dont write their name on it or something.. im not sure yet

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same here!

wow all these little things i don't even think about!!

I would say Mr and Mrs Frank Rizzo too (gotta love jerky boys haha) as opposed to just Mr. and Mrs. Rizzo....

And I think M_________ is fine... they should know how many are invited based on who the envelope is addressed to.... at least that's what I assume. Maybe I'm wront

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Posted by Lyssiegrl

wow all these little things i don't even think about!!

I would say Mr and Mrs Frank Rizzo too (gotta love jerky boys haha) as opposed to just Mr. and Mrs. Rizzo....

And I think M_________ is fine... they should know how many are invited based on who the envelope is addressed to.... at least that's what I assume. Maybe I'm wront

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Girl, I never even thought about this. I had no idea until it came down to addressing them! Im stumped and stressed!

Well, Im worried about leaving the M_____ blank because my family is crazy and will put their mailmans name down on it if I dont regulate!

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Posted by Songstress1212

How are you girls keeping track of your guests? On an excel sheet or something? Im so disorganized!!!

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on word..i have a list..

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Posted by Songstress1212

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Posted by Lyssiegrl

wow all these little things i don't even think about!!

I would say Mr and Mrs Frank Rizzo too (gotta love jerky boys haha) as opposed to just Mr. and Mrs. Rizzo....

And I think M_________ is fine... they should know how many are invited based on who the envelope is addressed to.... at least that's what I assume. Maybe I'm wront

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Girl, I never even thought about this. I had no idea until it came down to addressing them! Im stumped and stressed!

Well, Im worried about leaving the M_____ blank because my family is crazy and will put their mailmans name down on it if I dont regulate!

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i'd say if youre worried then put their name and how many seats youre reserving for their 'party'. i dont see any harm in that!

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Posted by Songstress1212

Okay last question! Is Ms. correct for any woman that isnt married??

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yeah i believe so!

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Posted by o8bride

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Posted by Songstress1212

Okay last question! Is Ms. correct for any woman that isnt married??

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yeah i believe so!

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Thank you!!!! You guys are the best

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Posted by Songstress1212

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Posted by o8bride

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Posted by Songstress1212

Okay last question! Is Ms. correct for any woman that isnt married??

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yeah i believe so!

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Thank you!!!! You guys are the best

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anytime

Im worried about how to write out the rsvps cause they say:

M______
__will attend
__will not attend

Im confused cause if I write in the name of everyone who is invited and only some can come will they write the number like

M__John, Mary, Joey, Jason
_2_ will attend
_2_ will not attend

Will they know to write the number? Am I overthinking this? I think Im gonna have to enclose instructions with the RSVPS...

you could write something like this:

The favor of a reply is requested
before November 1, 2008
Name_______________________
Number of persons ____
___will attend ___will not be able to attend


it's not an 'official' way of doing it...I sorta made this up and am thinking of using it for mine because my immigrant relatives won't know what to do with the little blank line next to the attend/not attend. This way, they can put a check mark next to the will/won't and fill in the main person's name and how many in that party are coming

you can never separate a man's first name from his last name

So

It should always be

Mr. and Mrs. Harry Gold

not

Mr. and Mrs. Harry and Sharon Gold


I originally wanted to do this not knowing, the proper way on my save the dates, my FH's parents are still married so i really thought it would of been nice to have his moms first name on it, but its not supposed to be that way.