Btw-if anyone gave me an I don't know I'd tell them that I know...and count them as a no. That's so rude.
GT143EA
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Our guarantee was 75. We invited about 120 and 80 came.
PROBM
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we invited 247 and had 204
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Posted by pipermaru
wow, crazy - what are people's reasons for not knowing/not coming? did you invite a lot of out of towners?
In my case, most of the nos so far have been my OOT and elderly, which in some cases were both. Also people being invited with a guest not bringing one. I've still got like 53 OOT guests left to respond, God help me!
vnv126
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We invited 170 and only got 130 yes !
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Posted by KerriJohnS
I used to think dress shopping was the hardest.... RSVP's have replaced dress shopping tenfold!! UGH!! Sooo annoying. I detest the I DON'T KNOW answers!! SOOOO ANNOYING!! it makes me want to slap people. I'm 21 days out and still getting I DON'T KNOW as an answer!! Thanks A HOLE!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry for the vent... but there are very few places I can actually say that! haha!!
ITA! RSVP's were the most stressful part of the wedding for me!
whtevjenny
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Invited 174, 159 are coming
lilmartha59
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min 175 invited 245 day of 160
Amberrenee6705
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I invited close to 200 people...and I had 210 say yes.
MirabellaNYC
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We had about 20% decline..although I will warn you, you will have cancellations the 2 weeks leading into your wedding.
Here were our figures:
Total invited-293 (inclusive of 6 kids 12 & under)
Total show rate day of-230 adults, 6 kids
The 10 days before our wedding we had 8 guests decline.
My advice is give your RH your final count as late as you can-we did our final payment/count the Tuesday before our saturday wedding-while we were on the way to NRC we got a call that a friend broke up with his girlfriend, so he would only be 1.
HTH!
jenny35
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Our min is 200 our list was at 300 but ended up being 389. So far we 241 yes and 81 nos and still waiting on about 64 people.
ttdiff11
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we invited 159 and so far i have 101 who said yes and 4 that said no. im expecting alot more people to say yes considering half of my bp hasnt rsvped and i have a huge bp lol. also alot of close fam hasnt responded. but there are obv people im stil not sure about so who knows.
