girls who are already married/already sent out invites - what were your numbers??
I am wondering if more people are saying no lately??
Diana508
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Invited 188 Yes: 159 No: 27
Approx percentage of no's: 15%
Waiting on two responses. One got 'mailed' and the other is my cousin who might be going into army training and is going to keep me posted.
eta: RSVP date was 3/26
slyman1101
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we invited 206. had 174 on the day of (8 cancellations within the last week!)
Soon2BeMrsB
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Invited = 133 YES = 65 NO = 18 Min = 100 RSVP date is 4/15
It's so frustrating that we haven't heard back from 50 guests (25 cpls) b/c we sent out STD's over 6 months ago! What are ppl waiting for???
joctorre
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Wow!!! I think I'm going to have to count my OOTs. We're so worried about inviting too many people. We really want to keep it to our 200 min and not go over by too much!!!
Right now we have 240 on the A list, and the B list brings it up to 287... Maybe I will up the B list bc there are already people I want to put on there!!!
i cannot believe all those stories about noshows....
I'm scared!
MayBride2010
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Posted by jilliibabii
I'm PRAYING for no's!
We've invited 210 people, 105 are definites, 19 are not attending.
lol - same here.
We invited 214, have a min of 150. As of today, we have 68 yes and 12 no, and our rsvp date is May 2nd. Although - we do know that a bunch of no's will be coming (please Lord!)
ourwedding9510
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Posted by Becca2010
Wowowowoww these numbers are so surprising!! I am up to 287 invited and I have a 200 minimum. I think I'll make it... good thing I have a B list!
Becca I have the same thing going on. We are inviting 288 and we're hoping A LOT of people say no!
Lil OC
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So judging by these numbers, it seems like the average % of 'NO's' is usually around 15%-30% depending on how many OOT guests you have. Which makes me happy because we have over 305 (yikes) on our list so far, and about 50 are OOT!!! Yay!! Big relief!
Its2Snappy
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Posted by MayBride2010
Posted by jilliibabii
I'm PRAYING for no's!
We've invited 210 people, 105 are definites, 19 are not attending.
lol - same here.
We invited 214, have a min of 150. As of today, we have 68 yes and 12 no, and our rsvp date is May 2nd. Although - we do know that a bunch of no's will be coming (please Lord!)
FH yells at me all the time. I won't tell him our numbers. But, we have 211 on A-list. Another 30 or so on B-list. Minimum is 150, but we don't want to go over 175 or we'll have some $$$ issues.
MayBride2010
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Posted by MayBride2010
Posted by jilliibabii
I'm PRAYING for no's!
We've invited 210 people, 105 are definites, 19 are not attending.
lol - same here.
We invited 214, have a min of 150. As of today, we have 68 yes and 12 no, and our rsvp date is May 2nd. Although - we do know that a bunch of no's will be coming (please Lord!)
FH yells at me all the time. I won't tell him our numbers. But, we have 211 on A-list. Another 30 or so on B-list. Minimum is 150, but we don't want to go over 175 or we'll have some $$$ issues.
lol - it sounds like we are in the same boat. We want to get as close to our minimum as possible!
christine2010
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we invited 143 people we have 105 Yes
& we are currently 5 people under our guarantee
FutureCap
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258 invited 102 yes 12 no
jcreilly
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We invited 215 we had guarteed 125 ,We paid for 135 guest ended up with 134. So we only paid for one extra person ,I think an extra child as well! We where lucky! Most of our RSVP also came within 2 days after the due date - which annoyed me. We did have 1 check sent to us with a no respones and 2 people sent gifts all before the wedding most of our No response did have a note on why they could not come. We then rec'ved 4 more check after, of people who could not come :)
scatteredx12
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We invited 196 and if I remember correctly, I think our final number including us and vendors was 154. In all actuality, it should have been somewhere around 134 because I think we had like 62 no's or something like that but SO many people on DH's side just added guests to their rsvps, or we'd invite just 'Mr. and Mrs.' and we'd get back that 5 people were coming. We let it slide because we received soo many more no's than we anticipated. Then about 10 people that rsvp'd yes didn't even show up to the wedding!!
Noelsgirl
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I have 81 yes and 17 no's so far and I invited 100 guests, my rsvp date is April 9th tomorrow
little j
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Posted by JayBee216 My min is 175 and I think we're only inviting 225! I too have a B list but OMG!
these were our numbers...and we had to go to a b-list...it has been hard. i hate this process! makes me feel like POO
dfw343
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invited 225 (0r 30 cant rem) I knew at least 20 of that would say no.
I ended up with 149 and 4 people did not show up(only 1 called and had good excuse).
