Invites aren't even out and I got word of extra guests

My FH has been talking to my aunt over Bridal Shower 'things' and my aunt gave him a heads up that my uncle's (her brothers) girlfriend plan on coming to NY with some of her friends that week...

MY FH says it was kinda implied that they thought they can bring these people.. Hello...how do you know your even invited to my wedding????? No invites went out and my STD went out to my Uncle only!!!!

I understand that they are comming all the way from Arizona, but it's our wedding, not a night out for you and your friends....

I understand completely! FH's family from Puerto Rico did the same thing.

The same thing with us!!! I feel your pain!!!