invites just hit the mailbox

Original post by spdy540

Mar 31, 2011 09:08 PM

and Im already 3 nos in. My grandmother just told me she decided to go on a cruise the day of my wedding and as most girls no my father backed out months ago and so did my mother who decided recently she will only come if she can her drug addict friend. I just want to cry

**** I would like to say its because of me but they do it to everyone they even did this on my sister graduation only me and my siblings showed up no parents. When I asked my grandma why she said she 'decided to be selfish'. I guess its good I'm one of 7 child and my siblings will be there

Im getting Married Posted: Apr 01, 2011 10:23 AM

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so sorry that is horrible but you will still have an amazing day

mybabylovesmoi Posted: Apr 01, 2011 11:01 AM

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I can't believe how some family members can suck!

You will still be surrounded by plenty of people who love and support you. I would actually be a little relieved that the negative people decided to skip my wedding.

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this nonsense

bebita0830 Posted: Apr 01, 2011 11:05 AM

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aww I know it must be hard not have ur parents there, I'm in the same situation, my mom passed away and I don't have a good relationship with my dad but all my sisters are coming and my brother is giving me away at the altar, good thing u have siblings and that they care for you and something very important is that u'll have the person that loves u dearly next to you, ur FH

FutureMrsDe Posted: Apr 01, 2011 11:40 AM

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Thats terrible and it will be there loss. they have to live with the guilt that they didn't come to there daughters wedding.

MarryingMyBFF1110 Posted: Apr 01, 2011 11:45 AM

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you and FH are starting your own family now you have to view it that way and not worry about those who don't matter !!

KristynLeigh Posted: Apr 01, 2011 11:49 AM

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This makes me want to cry because that is how my father is and it is so horrible but you seem to be surrounded by it. Try not to let it get you down. The people who love you will all be there to support you and who cares about anyone else!

VCanizalez Posted: Apr 01, 2011 11:51 AM

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I AM SO SORRY CHICA....

Someone told me this... well MANY ppl have told me this/....

THIS DAY IS FOR U AND UR FH...
THIS IS A SPECIAL MOMENT FOR U AND HIM...
Forget what's going on around... If ppl want to be at ur wedding, they will... if not, then LET IT BE...
You will still marry YOUR BEST FRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and If u just want someone else, LET ME KNOW N I CAN COME =-)

LATOYA Posted: Apr 01, 2011 12:46 PM

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I'm soooo sorry honey

remember this day is about you and fh so try to focus on yourselves its your day, enjoy it and don't let anyone bring you down.