invites stressing me out...

butterfl2878 Posted: Apr 11, 2005 08:33 PM

invites stressing me out...

i have been pretty relaxed and have enjoyed most of the planning. what does stres me out is when people invite guests without asking, or call and ask to bring a guest. i already invited too many people (way over the capacity for the VM ballroom) and just as I get some nos back....there is another peron being rude.

alexlynn7 Posted: Apr 11, 2005 08:45 PM

Re: invites stressing me out...

i totally hear you - the VM ballroom is really intimate, so it's practically impossible to squeeze people in.

i had one person call me today to ask if he could bring a guest - a girl he's been dating for oh, 3 weeks, whom we've never met. we just told him no, saying that it's a space issue. we simply have no room, especially with only 2 no's so far...

JUST SAY NO!

champagnebride Posted: Apr 11, 2005 09:16 PM

Re: invites stressing me out...

Yes,I am in the same boat!! People are insisting in bringing their children even when I put an ADULT only reception. I had one couple asked and some couples indicated it in the RSVP cards. IT is FH's relatives that are during this and he doesn't care! People are so rude! this has stressed me big time!