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Inviting a married female doctor....

Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted:

Inviting a married female doctor....

Hoping someone knows the answer to this question.

I'm inviting a married female doctor to the wedding, and her husband is not a doctor. How do I word the invitation? Do I put her name first because her title is 'higher'?

Like Dr. Jane Smith and Mr. John Smith?

TIA!
Tink1118 Posted:

Re: Inviting a married female doctor....

I believe it's:

Mr. Joe Smith and Dr. Jane Smith

I can't find the Emily Post article to confirm though. Sorry!
AugustFeather Posted:

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Posted by Tink1118

I believe it's:

Mr. Joe Smith and Dr. Jane Smith

I can't find the Emily Post article to confirm though. Sorry!



this sounds correct
Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted:

Re: Inviting a married female doctor....


Posted by AugustFeather


Posted by Tink1118

I believe it's:

Mr. Joe Smith and Dr. Jane Smith

I can't find the Emily Post article to confirm though. Sorry!



this sounds correct



ah, ok thanks ladies! i wrote it the wrong way so I'm glad I checked!!
megnant2011 Posted:

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I invitEd a male dr an wrote it Dr. and Mrs. John Doe
Hope this helps
SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

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i think it's Mr and Dr like they said..

NYtherapist Posted:

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The woman actually goes first in this scenario; I quadruple-checked.

Dr. Elizabeth Smith and Mr. Joseph Smith
Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted:

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Posted by NYtherapist

The woman actually goes first in this scenario; I quadruple-checked.

Dr. Elizabeth Smith and Mr. Joseph Smith



ok that's what i originally had... it's the title that puts her first?
NYtherapist Posted:

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Nothing I read seemed to explain the rationale. It all just said that if the wife is a doctor and the husband is not, the woman's name goes first.

suzie411 Posted:

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I believe i did

Dr. Emily Wren and Mr. Daniel Flanagan
Tink1118 Posted:

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Title takes precedent over gender so that sounds right. Sorry for the wrong information above!

jenn_eric Posted:

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Official titles always go first, so things like dr & rev trump mr.

LoveyDovey Posted:

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yes title always go first

I invited a female doctor as well, her name goes first
Chanwich Posted:

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Posted by LoveyDovey

yes title always go first

I invited a female doctor as well, her name goes first



Agreed, it is Dr. and Mr. So and So. I'm a Dr and have lots of Dr friends who are female and married and this is the proper way

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