Inviting Bridal Party's spouse/GF/BF

amstellitelady Posted: Nov 07, 2005 12:34 PM

Inviting Bridal Party's spouse/GF/BF

Do I invite them or not? or is it bridal party only.

also, what about those who r doing the readings?

hocus Posted: Nov 07, 2005 12:35 PM

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You mean to the wedding?

Of course you invite them.

JessicaM. Posted: Nov 07, 2005 12:36 PM

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invite them to what....it seems like you mean the rehearsal dinner, but I could be wrong.

MrsFelix Posted: Nov 07, 2005 12:36 PM

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Are you talking about the RD?? If so, proper etiquette is inviting BP significant other. Although the boards were split on this subject. I would say, if you can afford to invite them great, if not, then don't. And yes the readers get invited as well.

amstellitelady Posted: Nov 07, 2005 12:38 PM

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sorry, i meant the RD

kissy27 Posted: Nov 07, 2005 12:43 PM

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I am inviting the BP's significant others as most of them are either engaged or married...Also the readers will be invited but I know one of our reader's will not be there

Mrs. Powell Posted: Nov 07, 2005 12:45 PM

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I did invite Bridal Party's spouses.

thefirstlady Posted: Nov 07, 2005 12:45 PM

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Yes, send invites to the BP, and include their guests. If they are living w/ their guest, put both names on the invite, or if they've been in a long relationship w/ them. Just make sure you get the correct spelling of 1st and last names. If they are just inviting a date, I would put Miss/Mr So and So and Guest. As far as readers, yes, send them an invite as well!

ChrissynRicky Posted: Nov 07, 2005 12:47 PM

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Posted by amstellitelady

sorry, i meant the RD

I haven't decided yet, but I'm leaning towards 'NO' right now.

mka06 Posted: Nov 07, 2005 01:29 PM

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i think you should, if you can!

CaMacho Posted: Nov 07, 2005 01:31 PM

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Yes, we definitely will.

seta Posted: Nov 07, 2005 01:38 PM

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yes you should def. invite them!

amstellitelady Posted: Nov 07, 2005 01:41 PM

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thanks ladies. i'm going to invite them

hmpena Posted: Nov 07, 2005 01:42 PM

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We're inviting all significant others and the readers to our rehersal dinner.

Beth1210 Posted: Nov 07, 2005 02:26 PM

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Posted by hmpena

We're inviting all significant others and the readers to our rehersal dinner.

me too!

Kerrycec Posted: Nov 07, 2005 02:28 PM

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I am inviting the BP with dates only if they are serious. If they are bringing 'a guest' to my wedding that I don't know, then no. We are also inviting the readers to the rehearsal

july06bride Posted: Nov 07, 2005 03:48 PM

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they will be invited if they have a SO - not just a random guest- also MOST of them are out of staters and I would hate to see them be alone in the hotel- they really dont know eachother all that well...