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Inviting Colleagues From Work

espo825 Posted:

Inviting Colleagues From Work

What are your feelings on inviting colleagues from work to your wedding, particularly your bosses??

Is anyone inviting their colleagues to their wedding??
TaraVinny Posted:

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i am. i'm going to invite some of my co-workers and my boss.

WinterGrl09 Posted:

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Well when i was at my old job i had this issue. I didn't like my ex boss but was willing to invite everyone else. I would have ended up inviting her hoping that she wouldn't come.

fabulousmady Posted:

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I'm inviting my bosses and 2 coworkers. im trying not to become too friendly with anyone else! lol Its a hard thing to have to cut people out but you have to do what you have to do.

mf2009 Posted:

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I would have to pick and choose since I get along with everyone but I can't afford to do that and I have been promoted twice in 6months so that's too many bosses and previous bosses to be political with. So I have opted not to invite anyone and not talk about my wedding. If anyones asks. I tell them I have a big family and I am trying to keep my guest list as short as possible.

MRSin2009 Posted:

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I read an article once that said the best way to invite people without hurt feelings is invite the people you go to lunch with.

Future Mrs Roo Posted:

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Im inviting a lot of co-workers b/c we have become really good friends.

espo825 Posted:

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My company is really small (15 people) and I have become friendly with the girls that are here (and want to invite them to my wedding). But how can you invited some and not others, especially if there is only 15 people .
VickiR510 Posted:

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No i have way to many people. Both my fam & Fh's is huge so we are already trying to trim from 300. We are looking at 250 at least . So no co-workers are invited.

Im a Pepper Posted:

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i probably won't. i recently relocated to the Philly office and many people wouldn't come to NY for the wedding, there are many i don't like enough to invite, etc, so i don't think it's worth the hassle of inviting anyone.

egem523 Posted:

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I am inviting 3 coworkers and my boss. Besides that I am not close to anyone else

Cacarina Posted:

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I just started my job a month ago...so I am not sure yet. I still have a year and a half til my wedding, so I might form relationships with coworkers and I might want to invite them...we'll see!

EsquireBride Posted:

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Given size constraints, I think I will invite no one from work. I feel that I have to invite everyone or no one, and I am not super close to anyone. I am friends with one girl at work, but still not super-close, so I might see where the next year takes our friendship and whether we even have room for her and her husband.

chicky724 Posted:

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I am having such issues with this! I feel like if I invite the few people from work that I want to then I have to invite the two women I directly supervise even though I don't particularly like them. And then I feel bad inviting some people but not all... it's a mess!

What I might end up doing is just posting an invitation at work inviting everyone to the church, but not the reception.
squeekietoy Posted:

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I am. I'm really close with 5 of the ladies that work in my inner office. So, I'm inviting them. I'm also inviting my boss who works offsite and another co-worker who is on Maternity leave. These are all women whom I'm very friendly with and I couldn't imagine them NOT being at my wedding.

espo825 Posted:

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Posted by chicky824

I am having such issues with this! I feel like if I invite the few people from work that I want to then I have to invite the two women I directly supervise even though I don't particularly like them. And then I feel bad inviting some people but not all... it's a mess!

What I might end up doing is just posting an invitation at work inviting everyone to the church, but not the reception.



I feel the same way, especially since my company is small. Grr. What to do, lol.....
Tori9299 Posted:

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I am having a hard time with this since we work 2 jobs together. I have been here 10 years and he's been here for 4 we love everyone but we have to figure out a cut off.

Just Cindy Posted:

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I am inviting all the people I care about at work I think its going to be alot of people but since I dont have much family here they are sort of like my family. Home away from home.

mariannelovesjohn Posted:

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I am. they are a part of my life! They are great!

espo825 Posted:

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Do you girls think that co-workers expect to be invited? Or that bosses see it as a burden??

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