We are having our ceremony at the reception hall and it is being officiated by a rabbi and a priest. Were we suppossed to invite them to stay for the reception? I never sent them invitations and now I am starting to think I should have. We have no personal relationship with them. Thanks.
I'm starting to wonder too. We do not have a personal relationship with our priest so I didn't invite him. FI thinks that since he will already be at the wedding hall, we should invite him to dinner.
We did not invite our officiant. Basically she is another vendor. We do not have any kind of personal relationship with her.
Our Officiant is a family friend, and she is staying for the evening --my questions is....do I consider her a friend or an officiant---since our vendors are 1/2 price....I want to put her down for 1/2 ($50 instead of $100)...is that cheezy -no one will really know about it??
Posted by Monkeybride
We did not invite our officiant. Basically she is another vendor. We do not have any kind of personal relationship with her.
Posted by Monkeybride
We did not invite our officiant. Basically she is another vendor. We do not have any kind of personal relationship with her.
Posted by SandraLynn
Our Officiant is a family friend, and she is staying for the evening --my questions is....do I consider her a friend or an officiant---since our vendors are 1/2 price....I want to put her down for 1/2 ($50 instead of $100)...is that cheezy -no one will really know about it??
Honestly, I don't know if it's considered rude not to invite them, but I really don't care. I'm paying them a ridiculous sum of money for 20 minutes work, as well as paying my hall a ceremony fee. I refuse to send another dime on them. If they want to stay for the coctail hour that's fine (because they don't take a head count) but they WILL be leaving when it's time for the reception.
