Quick question...I was in a sorority but since leaving college, I feel so far removed from most if not all of them. I don't even think I plan to invite my pledge sisters (the girls you are supposed to be closest to). Am I wrong in doing this? I was invited to one of my pledge sisters wedding...but without a guest! I was with Steve for over 4 years already! I am still a little bitter about this and ended up not even going to her wedding.
I just love PMSing..it makes you think about random things!
AugustBridein09
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My college was so small we didn't have sororitys and fraternitys but I say if you aren't really that close with any of them and you would only be inviting them out of an obligation, then you shouldn't invite them. And I have to agree, if that one person sent you an invite to their wedding w/ no guest and you & your FH were together 4 years, she is out of touch with your life. Sorry to sound a little harsh. Hope this helps.
MrsKtoBe
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I am only inviting my best friend from my sorority. The rest are not invited. I dont think you're being rude at all. I'm telling everyone that my wedding is almost entirely family (pretty much true). If you invite them and 3 years from now, they dont invite you, you're going to be so mad you wasted the invite.
Utterhappiness
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I am in a sorority also and My bridal party is made of the following:
MOH-Lisa- my sorority sister BM-Lauren- pledge sister BM-Aly-sorority sister BM-LIsa B.- I was her APM (assis pledge mom) BM-Susan- I was also her APM BM- Gina- close friend I wentto college with in a diff sorority BM-Melissa- another close frined from college from a different sorirty BM-Jessica- friend from home BM-Lucia-FH's cousin
I also am inviting a bunch of my sisters that I remain super close with...but my point is this... invite who you want to be there! Dont worry about what is'right' or 'wrong'...if you could not imagine your day without them there, then forget them! If they shaded out on you in the past with their weddings then ... do whatever you want! YOU, my darling, are the BRIDE!!! YOu run the show! xoxo
ace730
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I am only inviting those sorority sisters that I still talk to and only 2 of the 6 are from my actual pledge class. Do not worry about. Invite who you want to!
