Invititation Wording

me & FH are paying for most of the wedding. with help from my parents AND his mother. his parents are divorced. i was going to write
'Together with their parents'..

since my parents are a little old fashioned i kind of hinted it towards my mother & she seemed a little turned off. now my problem is FH mother not only has helped by paying for the DJ & photographer. She has come with me on several vendor appointements. However, FH dad had contributed nothing at all. nothing against the man. we get along fine.. but so far he hasn't helped with anything at all.

I guess question is for FH parents does it matter if her name comes first or not??

For his parents i was thinking of something like this:

Ms. Janet Jones (she still uses her married name)

&

Mr. John Jones

what do you think??? any suggestions ?

here are some options

Brides parents are divorced:
either
Issued by the parent who raised her
Ms. Janet Myers
requests the honor of your presence
at the wedding of her daughter
Anne Catherine
etc.

or

Divorced parents are hosting the wedding together
Mr. Christopher Myers
and
Ms. Janet Myers request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Anne Catherine

Divorced parent and new stepparent are hosting the wedding:
Mr. and Mrs. Marc Velez
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of Mrs. Velez's daughter
Anne Catherine Myers
etc.

Child of divorced and remarried parents both hosting the wedding
Mr. and Mrs. Christopher Myers
and
Mr. and Mrs. Marc Velez
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter
Anne Catherine
etc.

OR

Mr. and Mrs. Christopher Myers
and
Mr. and Mrs. Marc Velez
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of the daughter of Mr. Myers and Mrs. Velez
Anne Catherine
to
etc.