I was talking to some people at work today.... and they were talking about how a lot of brides worry about completely irrational things that in all likelihood would NEVER EVER ACTUALLY HAPPEN (i.e. falling down the aisle? Dress falling off... etc....)
anyone have any of these??
I know I always had one.. i will be the first to share my silliness..... I am very HEAT sensitive and I get very sick when im too hot........ so I was already afraid of 'WHAT IF I PASS OUT DURING THE CEREMONY?'
THANK GOODNESS IM GETTING MARRIED IN MARCH HEHE
So anyone else have irrational thoughts?
AugustBridein09
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I always have this fear that when we are at the RH, and are walking in....I trip over my dress and since FH is holding my hand we both tumble to the ground.
little34
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I am a bit worried about myself or FH passing out....but that is it...and I guess it could happen...hopefully not. There I go again worrying.
longislandlibrarian
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I thought I was the only Pass=Out Worrier lol...... what makes you worry about that?? Mine is heat related
IrishBrideASmiling
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Im always afraid of passing out. I believe I still hold the record for passing out the most in my HS. I think its a combination of my low blood pressure and the stress I put on myself. Add in the fact my wedding is in July. So yea, passing out is one of mine too.
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i wondered once.. what happens if i faint when i'm up there i would totally be humiliated... i just dont want a blooper to happen to me.. lol
longislandlibrarian
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I think the same thing!!!! and then i realize.. what's the WORST that could happen??? you faint... you wake back up and everyone gets you on your feet.. and you are on your way
See how i rationalize everything?
ellyoxox
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i'm probably gonna trip over my own feet while i'm walking down the aisle lol
tye85
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i'm probably gonna trip over my own feet while i'm walking down the aisle lol
me too. I am very accident prone, i trip wen i m wearing sweats n sneakers, can't imagine myself wit a long dress n shoes n not tripping
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Posted by longislandlibrarian
I was talking to some people at work today.... and they were talking about how a lot of brides worry about completely irrational things that in all likelihood would NEVER EVER ACTUALLY HAPPEN (i.e. falling down the aisle? Dress falling off... etc....)
anyone have any of these??
I know I always had one.. i will be the first to share my silliness..... I am very HEAT sensitive and I get very sick when im too hot........ so I was already afraid of 'WHAT IF I PASS OUT DURING THE CEREMONY?'
THANK GOODNESS IM GETTING MARRIED IN MARCH HEHE
So anyone else have irrational thoughts?
Unfortunately anyoen who knows me KNOWS this WILL happen to me haha I will fall down the aisle... and im sure something will happen to make me laugh haha
BUT ive grown used to it haha...
Hopefully they catch it on tape though!!
FSILs dress was ripped off (Bottom from corset) from a woman who fell and she replays it for everyone to see!
kabo0831
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tripping up the isle b/c im not good in heels
stephlovesseyi
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No one will show up!
Future Mulligan
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my FH works for a DJ company so he videos a lot of ceremonies.....he has seen quite a few grooms pass out due to the combination of drinking to much and summer heat! can you imagine!
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Posted by kabo0831
tripping up the isle b/c im not good in heels
i have the same fear.. i hardly ever wear heels.. so im figuring with all the excitment/nervousness of the day added with heels im not used to.. im gunna trip!
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08er crashing ..
i am surprised how many people are afraid of falling, tripping and fainting!
i know this is gonna sound horrible and maybe disturbed but i am so worried someone close to be would die before the wedding. it would ruin my life, the wedding would be off or delayed. not that it would be any better if someone died after the wedding.. but i really want everyone intended to be there to be at the wedding!
i am also so worried that NO ONE will dance and that even though i have the hall until 12 that people will start leaving after the cake at 10:30
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Dr Meg
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I fear my heel is going to get stuck in between the boards on the deck, when I am walking down the aisle.
My other fear, which isn't irrational, because it's totally gonna be the case, is that I am going to cry like a baby throughout the whole ceremony. From the time I walk down the aisle to the time FH and I walk back up.
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Are you kidding....I have so many fears....pimples on my face....or hives, bc i have sensitive skin and i get those when I am stressed. Rain on the wedding day...spilling something on the dress...
For some reason I am not that afraid of tripping or flling, but more that I will screw up my dress with makeup. i am so clumsy sometimes...
i am also afraid of not having somebody important at my wedding due to illness or else...knock on wood
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I have a really bad stomach, IBS type issues (sorry, TMI) and Im so worried that Im going to have to run to the bathroom in the middle of the ceremony because I will be so nervous!
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I'm also worried that no one will dance at all! My family aren't the dancing type at all, so I'm hoping my friends and FH's family get the party started.
Plus it's a late wedding (goes until 1:00) so I'm afraid people will leave way early especially since dinner prob won't be served until after 9:30!!
meli722
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fear of passing out because itll be too hot...and ill be in a huge dress....but im hoping to get a sim dress and not too big...
