Is anyone a little tired

heidla Posted: Jan 21, 2004 08:05 PM

Is anyone a little tired

of planning their wedding? I hate that I feel this way but I am so over it!!! I wish that we had decided to elope. I think that the fact that I cannot get my FH to help me at all is making it that much worse. Is anyone else feeling this way or am I just crazy?

NYCHICK Posted: Jan 21, 2004 08:06 PM

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AMEN to that. I have posted this before but would love to again. I just wanna be married. All this planning is a pain. I want the day but the planning is getting on my nerves.

heidla Posted: Jan 21, 2004 08:11 PM

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THANK YOU!!!!!!!!! I really thought I was the only one who felt this way.

NYCHICK Posted: Jan 21, 2004 08:13 PM

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I have been pi$$ed about this for a while. Dealing with vendors, everyone,s unwanted opinions, bM who are a pain in the a$$, o I could defintely live without that

september2004 Posted: Jan 21, 2004 08:14 PM

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Posted by heidla

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!! I really thought I was the only one who felt this way.

no, you are NOT ALONE!

palebride Posted: Jan 21, 2004 08:16 PM

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awwww - i love the planning!!!
i don't know what i'm going to do when it's all done with....i guess i'll enjoy married life!

heidla Posted: Jan 21, 2004 08:18 PM

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I am also tired of people just trying to rip me off. They think that because I am a woman and a bride that I am ignorant or a total sucker. I know when you are ripping me off and I will not do business with you.

THAT FELT GREAT!!!!!!!!

wenndypoo Posted: Jan 21, 2004 08:44 PM

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Oh god yeah.
I'm so over this whole thing. It's hard to get motivated anymore!

85 more days.......

Boop2704 Posted: Jan 21, 2004 08:50 PM

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Posted by palebride

awwww - i love the planning!!!
i don't know what i'm going to do when it's all done with....i guess i'll enjoy married life!

You could start planning or working on a baby!!

Boop2704 Posted: Jan 21, 2004 08:53 PM

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I felt the same way as you all, but trust me as you get even closer, it starts getting exciting again and you really get back into things. I was the same way as all of you and now I am 16 days away. Trust me before you know it your day will be here!! Oh and my FH hasn't really helped out too much either, but now that we are down to the wire he has really gotten into it!! Stay Positive!! And think of what the end result of all this planning will be.. all your hard work will pay off with the wedding of your dreams!!

OctGroom Posted: Jan 21, 2004 08:53 PM

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Yes, I'm tired.. I had to run some errands today.. then I was supposed to be somewhere right afterwards.. oh wait, you mean the wedding, right?

Sure.. it's defintely OK to be tired. There may even be days when you won't want to think about it at all becuase you know you have a laundry list of thins to do. To me, that's perfectly normal.

A Wedding has a lot to do to prepare for it. (I think we all know that.. there's contstant stress, worry about vendors, fighting family members and friends.. and it's all just crazy.)

A wedding is a marathon..... but you can't think about it 24/7. There's so many other things to think about and deal with in our normal lives.

And we drive ourselves nuts all for one day.
But oh how this day is so worth it!