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atitus724 Posted:

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having pre wedding jitters?

i think i am=/
anjelagain Posted:

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Yes!!!!!

FutureJOC Posted:

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not jitters but as it gets closer I'm starting to get panicky about things that still need to get done. I told FH he has to bear with me and just do what needs to be done without an argument because I may lose my mind LOL

anjelagain Posted:

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Me too. My sister was like, you turned really psycho when you put the down payment for your dress... Im like , well it took them a week and a half to figure out it was sized wrong, but still...lol. Im so scared for the 'month of'

luvstruck Posted:

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Posted by FutureJOC

not jitters but as it gets closer I'm starting to get panicky about things that still need to get done. I told FH he has to bear with me and just do what needs to be done without an argument because I may lose my mind LOL



This!!!!!
MrsVtoBe Posted:

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Not really have jitters, just stressing about everything and fighting with FH a lot. It's annoying, but everyone says it's part of the process and everything will go back to normal after the planning it over.

I'm just scared to see how I'll be the whole month of June!
BlushandBashful Posted:

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I actually feel the opposite. I'm usually pretty high strung but feel I've been beyond calm this whole process (with maybe 1 exception). Hopefully it stays this way through June. Although I highlyyyy doubt it!!!

ourwedding9510 Posted:

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Posted by MrsVtoBe

Not really have jitters, just stressing about everything and fighting with FH a lot. It's annoying, but everyone says it's part of the process and everything will go back to normal after the planning it over.

I'm just scared to see how I'll be the whole month of June!



CRASHING:

A word of advice my dad gave me that stuck with me throughout all the little fights with DH during planning, 'If you can get through wedding planning without killing each other, you can get through anything together.' Just keep that in mind, you're going to fight and actually get to know things about each other during this time that you didn't know (family values, visions of the day). Just remember, you want it perfect but it's a 5 hour party for a lifetime...
kshea23 Posted:

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Not really nervous, but just hoping everything turns out ok, and I don't forget something.i've been having some serious wedding nightmares the past new weeks. As long as they stay in my dreams, i'll be happy!
IrishAli Posted:

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A little- but I'm more stressed about the other things going on in June! Needing to find a NYC apt, needing to find a job, having to sell most of my stuff to move!

adelz Posted:

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Posted by kshea23

Not really nervous, but just hoping everything turns out ok, and I don't forget something.i've been having some serious wedding nightmares the past new weeks. As long as they stay in my dreams, i'll be happy!



This :) No jitters on my end, just pure excitement, and than all the nervousness is in my wedding nightmares lol
atitus724 Posted:

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im having like doubts about us! its awful but hes being so nasty...i hope its just because of the wedding planning..
adelz Posted:

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Posted by atitus724

im having like doubts about us! its awful but hes being so nasty...i hope its just because of the wedding planning..



Aw no! I'm sorry to hear that - have you talked to him about it and told him how you feel lately, and how his actions make you feel?
smilesjc81 Posted:

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Posted by atitus724

im having like doubts about us! its awful but hes being so nasty...i hope its just because of the wedding planning..



awww, planning is stressful

I'm not really getting jittery, but I look at the FH sometimes and think

WOW ..yes..this is forever...this is for real... am I ready? Do I want this?

and then I calm down... I LOVE HIM
BlushandBashful Posted:

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Posted by atitus724

im having like doubts about us! its awful but hes being so nasty...i hope its just because of the wedding planning..



Oh man, well you need to talk to him ASAP.
kimmaymb20 Posted:

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I'm just ready have a break down. I am so overwhelmed with life between school and the wedding I just feel like sleeping till the week of the wedding. I am on the verge of tears on a daily basis.

smilesjc81 Posted:

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Posted by kimmaymb20

I'm just ready have a break down. I am so overwhelmed with life between school and the wedding I just feel like sleeping till the week of the wedding. I am on the verge of tears on a daily basis.

aww kimmy
it will all work out!
NikkiB0401 Posted:

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Posted by atitus724

im having like doubts about us! its awful but hes being so nasty...i hope its just because of the wedding planning..



You are not alone. FH and I fight almost everyday now. We fight about fighting. Its gotten to be really bad. Each weekend we have a huge blowout where I tell him I don't want to do this. At this point I can't figure out if I'm just stressed about the wedding (my mom (divorced)has not been responsive at all with things and now the parents, both sides, are coming to me about it) or if I'm stressed bc this is real and FOREVER which is the scariest thought. UGH!! I wish I was 18 again
rosatemp Posted:

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i always get alittle anxiety when thinking about all thats left to do and make sure it gets done

meghan13 Posted:

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I dont get nervous about him or being married (at least not yet?)

What I do get stressed about is paying for the wedding and making sure everything is done!

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