..my FH has looked so down and mopey lately. He doesn't want to tell me whats wrong and I fear it has something to do with my arguing and bickering. When he comes home he just goes on his computer and downloads music or watches TV. He has his own business and I haven't really seen him work on that in the last few days. I am so worried girls. This is so stressing me out. What should I do? I tried talking to him but he said nothing is wrong. But i know him and I know something is wrong.
hmpena
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I would give him some space and time. Let him know that you are there for him whenever he needs you and is ready to talk. Then back off. If you continue to ask what is wrong, he may just withdraw further. I know it's tough to back off because you love him, but it may be what he needs right now.
Good luck!
Mrs. Powell
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Try to give him a little time to come around. You guys need to talk so if there is anything that is bothering him can be resolved quickly. Try not stress too much.
Maybride519
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I agree with hmpena. Just give him some space. As hard as it may be not to get involved with whatever his troubles may or may not be, try to be strong and give him the benefit of the doubt that nothing is truely wrong until he get out of his funk. Hang in there!
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maybe just some space and some TLC......
he'll tell you when he's ready or just come out of it himself...
cindyandkevin
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I agree with Hollie and Mrs. Powell, they're right. I know it's tough to leave him like that bc you hate to see him that way, but sometimes it's really the best thing to do.
Let things go for a few days and see if there are any changes in his behavior. Don't worry hun, everything will be fine!! Your man will be back to his usual self in no time!!
Also, try posting this on the Grooms board and see what kind of feedback you get from guys, they know themselves better than we do.
cantwait2bewed
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I agree - just give him some time and space. When I'm upset about something I'm kind of the same way. I like to withdraw a little bit and figure things out on my own before people (who I know are trying to help) give me their opinions and tell me how to fix it. I always know things will be fine in the end but I always like a little alone time to work through it.
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I definitely agree with TIME and SPACE - my FH got like that once and I kept asking him what was wrong and he wouldn't say ... a few days later he admitted his Dad was driving him nuts at work (they own a business together)
