is anyone else NOT nervous?

cherandgeo Posted: Oct 12, 2007 09:33 AM

is anyone else NOT nervous?

I have three weeks from today and I'm not nervous about anything. I don't know if that's good or bad but I feel like if it happened tomorrow I would be fine with it and totally happy.

Did anyone or does anyone else feel like this?

Kara and Todd Posted: Oct 12, 2007 09:38 AM

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I wasn't nervous at all. I was stressed out about the wedding, but I was never nervous at all.

Jetsgrl26 Posted: Oct 12, 2007 09:40 AM

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I am kind of still in a shock mode, and I'm just nervous that one of my wedding 'nightmares' might come true.

rkl1130 Posted: Oct 12, 2007 09:40 AM

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Posted by Kara and Todd

I wasn't nervous at all. I was stressed out about the wedding, but I was never nervous at all.

Same here.

I was stressed and over wedding planning, but I wasn't actually nervous about getting married.

cherandgeo Posted: Oct 12, 2007 09:46 AM

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i guess I should have rephrased it. I'm not even stressed out about anything. It's weird. I am usually stressed about everything. I guess because I stressed out about it so much earlier when planning that now I'm just kinda sitting back and enjoying myself.

FutureMrsChrisK Posted: Oct 12, 2007 09:48 AM

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My wedding is the same weekend as yours. People at work were asking me this morning if I'm nervous and I said no I just can't wait to enjoy the reception.

I was really anxious and nervous a couple of weeks ago. I was afraid that this and that won't go right. Other than a few minor issues, it looks like everything is falling into place.

SusiBtoM Posted: Oct 12, 2007 10:09 AM

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At 15 days to go, I'm not nervous, I actually feel quite calm which is very unusual. I usually get stressed.
I am just a bit emotional because I wish my mom could be there, but she will be in my heart.

Everything I needed to do is done. FH still has not taken care of the transportation from the hotel to RH, but at this point I just don't care. My car will be the the RH so if need be, I'll just hike up my dress, toss my veil over the backrest and drive myself back to the hotel.

Day of the wedding I probably will be nervous because I am a control freak and eveything has to work on my schedule.

MrsBrags7706 Posted: Oct 12, 2007 11:59 AM

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i HONESTLY wasnt nervous at all!

KK Holiday Posted: Oct 12, 2007 12:05 PM

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thats great!!!! You should be happy youre not nervous it means your confident in marrying FH and that your confident in yourself for choosing the right vendors and surrounding yourself with the right people.

GOoD FOR YOU!

magbride Posted: Oct 12, 2007 12:11 PM

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I go back and forth. Not feeling too nervous right now....until I read that you're getting married in 3 weeks. I'm the next day...suddenly felt a little freaked out
But in all seriousness, I have a million things to do both wedding and work-related before big day, but I'm reaching that feeling of 'it'll all come together,' so I'm not as anxious as I was say, last month.

dianadrw Posted: Oct 12, 2007 02:00 PM

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I was not nervous at all until I was waiting in the limo to go inside the church. Everything hit me at that moment. But once I saw DH I was totally fine.

Mizzdimple Posted: Oct 12, 2007 02:02 PM

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im not nervous at all! i cant wait..more like anxious!

Kara and Todd Posted: Oct 12, 2007 02:19 PM

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I should add - NOTHING was or felt real to me until I got out of the limo to walk into the church and my cousin (bag piper) started playing song for the bride on the bag pipes. That is when I realized, 'OMG. I'm getting MARRIED!'

drpepper318 Posted: Oct 12, 2007 03:21 PM

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I wasn't nervous at all either... just really excited!!! And I agree it didn't feel real until the last moment right before walking down the aisle

FutureMrsSabbagh Posted: Oct 12, 2007 03:47 PM

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I've got 5 weeks left and I'm not nervous at all, nor have I been during the entire planning process. My BP has been great, my parents and FIL's are all awesome. FH is even having surgery on Wednesday (okay, that did give me about 5 minutes of nerves) but I know he will be fine and it's a short recovery time.

I'm just looking foward to a kick a$$ party and then a fabulous honeymoon.