is anyone else up?

OH god i am about to lose it after the table arrangements being changed over and over which i dont know why they didnt leave it the way i originally had it since now its basically back to how i originally had it GRRRRRRRR, i took a break when i finally got back home but had to go over it, make sure everyone who rsvp'd yes has a seat and just fix up the tables a little bit. I am going nuts bc i counted the amount of ppl at the tables vs the list i have for yes rsvp's and it doesnt match up, i have more ppl at table arrangements but this also has to do with ppl who verbally respond yes but i put them down too i keep going back and forth. Then one table had so few ppl and they were going to leave it like that, so i had to switch some things around and move some people. I think its much better the way i did it so im leaving it like this. I also think the reason why we have more ppl on the table arrangements is bc i think fh put family members that didn't respond. Wasnt many but about 4 of them, unless he just knows theyre coming even still my difference between the two lists is over 10 ppl someone messed up but not me hahahha. I have to go over it once again but had to take a break bc i cant focus right now. It might just be that my dad found out recently a few ppl said they will come but didnt update me with that info and just handed me his seating arrangements with friends and family with them on it, although i havent found somebody lol.

The funny thing to me is that we ended up with 22 tables which has been a significant throughout our engagement and has always been fh's number

nobody is probably on and im talking to myself but i am so annoyed so just felt like posting this i am tired and want to go to bed but i have to bring this to JT tomorrow

AWWWW Denise I just got home from work right now and saw this post! You poor thing youre making yourself crazy!! I remember when I was doing the seating chart I just couldnt match it up with my final number!! It was driving me crazy. Its cause I was counting DH and I in the final number so thats why (yes IM retarded) But it will all work out. I hop eyou figured it out by now and are in bed!!!

I just got on now....you poor thing...get some rest

i hope you are not still up doing this

good luck and relax!!

That sounds like a nightmare. I've always heard that I should prepare myself for the seating chart dilemmas. Maybe if you take a break for a while...you'll be able to see things from a different angle when you go back. Also, try starting from the 22nd table and work your way forward...do this from the last page of your RSVP list too. Sometimes just changing the order of how you're doing something so rote like this, can help in spotting the problem. Good Luck.....You just started your 10 day countdown yesterday...and...that's plenty of time to figure out where your guests will sit.

Edited because I have no clue what today's date is...misjudged your countdown day.

I'm here, 5 hours later but I'm here lol....just take a breather Denise! I went nuts double checking the tables with the RSVP's because I was off by 2 for some reason then after about a half hour of double checking I realized that me and FH weren't counted on the tables.

i stayed out of the seating arrangement thing.. my parents sat down to do it about three times and they got into a huge argument and stopped it.. FH's side has about 50 more people.. it's insane.. and of course we have to honor requests when people asked to be seated together.. people verbally saying yes and then people calling us and telling us one dropped out..

i can't wait to be married..