Is anyone else worrying?

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Posted by NY2Cincinnati

Is anyone else thinking that something bad is going to happen the day of their wedding. I am just so afraid that my wedding day is going to turn into a nightmare. My FH thinks I am crazy but I can't stop worrying. I have heard mixed reviews about my RH and I think that scares me the most. Just wondering if anyone else is thinking the same thing.

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Awww don't feel like that!!! Everything will be fine!!! Worrying will only drive you nuts...but I understand. I'm worrying about a bunch of things!

Of course it's always over things one can't control- the WEATHER! Normally I wouldn't care if it rained- yes it would stink but I think I could live with it- BUT since I'm getting married at Chateau La Mer and we have that awesome boat ride- if it rains I will be crushed beyond belief!!!

I guess the rest of my worries are if I'd be disappointed with any of the vendors that I've so hyped up in my mind....

Take a big deep breath... In the end only one thing will matter and you know what that is!

Totally normal, im the same way!

my wedding is outdoors...im a nervous wreck that it might rain!!

It's just wedding jitters....I am feeling the same way...It will pass...Mine is starting to ease up because of the many things I have to do...I am thinking about them now...

I definitely know how you feel. I'm also worried about it in a different way. I've been getting dizzy spells for a few years now. Sometimes I'll wake up with them and can't get out of bed the whole day. I'm so afraid that it will happen on my wedding day

I definitely worry about everything, but I am a worrier. You name it, and I have thought of it, but I can drive myself crazy thinking about it. There are things that you just can't control and you have to make the best of and that's what I keep telling myself. Also, some anxiety medicine might do the trick for me.

Yep. You are not alone. Here are a few things I worry about

-That one of my vendors will get sick and not show up
-That a lot of my guest will not show
-the cake is going to fall or get ruined..

those are just a few...but I try not to stress it..because they are things that are not under out control. You just have to relax

The most important thing on your wedding day is that you and FH are getting married and will spend the rest of your lives together. No matter what happens (bad weather, no-show guests, problems with the RH), the two of you will be together and that will overshadow anything bad happening!

So now I will go take my own advice and stop worrying that my dress won't be in on time!

What you're feeling is totally normal. I cant even tell you the number of nightmares I've had....

As of right now, my biggest fear is bad weather. Last year on our date it poured cats and dogs. We're getting married at CLM and I really wanted to be able to enjoy the outdoor cocktail hour and the boat ride....it would be such a waste and a disappointment if it rained

But let me tell you -- you cant control everything...and thats okay! Try not to worry and everything will work itself out. I notice that in a lot of reviews brides always say that on the morning of the wedding they were soooo calm and they werent worried about anything. You know why? Because on that day they suddenly remembered what its all about. Its about marrying the man of your dreams, the love of your life. All those details that seemed so important during this whole planning process arent going to matter. Try to keep that in mind and dont stress! Everything will be fine and your wedding is going to be beautiful. I bet even if something does go wrong, it'll be something that only YOU will notice -- not your guests