FH more since the wedding is getting closer--- dave and i are fighting soo much more lately and i can only come up with the explanation that we are getting nervous... it sux-- i always thought this time would be awesome but i swear girls sometimes i just feel like saying f**k it its not worth the arguing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please tell me im not alone
cantwait11108
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ok guess i am alone--- that's beat>>>
MrsJ08
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I have but not extremely, FH is the type that likes to get things out of the way, for instance favors, the first favor we see, he will say 'ok lets order them' but I want to see more and find a cheaper one or go online to see if its cheaper. Thats how we dissagree on things. I am more laid paid then he is. But is normal, its all the stress thats building up and then it just explodes. You both just need to sit back and relax.
Hope it all works out!
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omg yes- we have to spend less time together and handle wedding things seperatley bc ill kill him
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Posted by cantwait11108
ok guess i am alone--- that's beat>>>
you need to give it more time than 4 minutes before you get upset about no replies....
no worries - we've all been there!
sorry if that came off witchy....just no need to worry - you'll get replies!
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thanks guys-- sorry about being impatient about responses i just wanted to know what people thought-- i know i am not the biggest poster on this site and for those who are you guys seem pretty tight --guess i had an insecure moment-- i apologize---- so anyone have good plans for this weekend?
i will probably be fighting with fh
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Posted by cantwait11108
thanks guys-- sorry about being impatient about responses i just wanted to know what people thought-- i know i am not the biggest poster on this site and for those who are you guys seem pretty tight --guess i had an insecure moment-- i apologize---- so anyone have good plans for this weekend?
no worries!!!! i'll reply to anything that i have something in common with :)
Dave & I really didn't fight a lot, but we lived together for 5 years before we got married....and we went through a LOT in the beginning of our relationship...which lead me to believe that because we got through that - we'll get through anything...(including planning and paying for our wedding)..
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hey...
some people are tighter than others because they have been around longer....I haven't been and can't really post at work so I used to feel the same in the beginning but I got over it
Me and FH def. have had our arguments as the stress of the wedding is upon us and there have been days where I am so done with all the stress but I am sure at the end of the day I will be happy that we made a decision to have a decent wedding.
This weekend-Baby Shower and cooking for Mom for Mothers Day....a little busy but not that bad! Have a good one as I am off to bed
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I think it's nerves cause it's so close and there's so much left to do!
I had to get mad at him to realize we have less than a month to get things done and that I've been happy to plan everything, but now I need his help! Gentle nagging didn't work, so I had to yell at him and that finally got to him.
However, don't forget the reasons you're getting married and it will be worth it in the end
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yes- I feel like all we do is get on each others nerves lately. I don't get it???
Two Peas
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yes....but i think we just have too many commitments and not enough time...this time of year is hard for both of us...but as much as we may be arguing we always are sure to make up! haha
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yes but things have gotten better for now we are just taking it easy and not letting the pressure get to us I have no idea how long this will last but I am happy at where we are for the moment