wedding planning? I have been doing something for the wedding almost everyday since Labor Day and now, I feel like I need a break! I can't even talk about the wedding, and with today being Thanksgiving, I know people will ask me a lot of questions and give me tons of advice. I just don't want to talk about it anymore! I've made some progress in the last three months, and my wedding is not until July, but I think I need a breather and do something else. Did anyone experience this (or experiencing this right now)? Sorry to be such a downer, but I need some reassurance, if there is any out there!
fleeflee
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Funny - FH and I were just talking about this. It's not the planning I'm sick of, its mostly the unsolicited advice! We also said that now that the whole family is around EVERYONE is going to question us. So, we decided that we're taking the holidays off. No more wedding planning until January. We're ahead of the game right now, so we'll have a few stress free weeks. And today when Aunt whoever starts to offer advice, we're telling her that there's no wedding talk until after the holidays, plain and simple. We're just enjoying the season. Happy Thanksgiving and GOOD LUCK!
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I can't believe in a month all my planning will be over I was getting a little overwhelmed but now I am so so excited! When it gets near the final countdown you guys will get excited again At least after the wedding we will be trying to have a baby so that will consume my thoughts!
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Well, I'm just about done w/all the big stuff except Limos, so actually now I feel like I don't have enough to do LOL Really, a couple months ago when I was in the middle of all the biggies all at once, I was stressed out and sick of it. Now that it's winding down, I'm all excited again
Don't worry, we all go through this stage
OctBride03
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You are describing EXACTLY the way I felt a few months ago! I know it is VERY stressful, if you need to take a break from planning a little, I suggest doing that. A little break helped me get back on track with my planning. Don't worry, things will definately fall into place and you'll be soooooooo excited! It can be very overwhelming so a little planning hiatus may be just what the doctor ordered!
Good luck!
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I was on a planning frenzy all summer long. I have most of the major stuff taken care of but I needed a break from it all so I haven't done much in the past month or two. It was such a relief.
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Thank you all for 'listening.' I tried to explain this feeling to a colleague and she said that maybe I should postpone the wedding and see whether my FI is someone I want to marry. I know I want to marry him, but I guess I'm a little stressed from all of the wedding planning. I feel like I haven't done too much that is NWR, so maybe I need to focus on other things right now, like going to the gym!
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I was just thinking today that I am so tired of all this planning especially since when I come to LI to do wedding plans it is non stop since I live out of town. I have been here since Monday night and am at the point where I just want it to be over already! Guess I am in just one of those moods!
jennbaby
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i HAVE BEEN sick of wedding planning & still have 5 1/2 months to go.
JENHOS
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All of a sudden you will get into a calm period and it won't seem bad. Then it gets busy again. Enjoy it. Once it is done you will be so happy to see all the details come together!
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I feel the same way. I have been on such a high since we got engaged in April '01 and for the last 2 months, I've been kind of down on the whole wedding planning process.
My wedding is in July too and I just need to book limos and a hair person and purchase my favors and invitations. I'm hoping to book limos this week and I want to book a hair stylist by the end of December. Favors and invitations I hope to have done in January.
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know how you feel. I have been sick of this wedding bs, since 6 onths ago. It will be over soon and then we can enjoy our marriages.