Is anyone not into their friends lately.

Im not right now. I feel as if many of my long term firends are in different direction than me
or not into the same interests as me. They all love going out and partying on the weekends
and Im so not into that anymore, but at the same time I feel left out of things. I spend alot of
time with my dh - maybe I isolate myself but he likes doing the same things as me. BUT
he spends lots of time with his friends becuase they all have the same interests as him ( playing
video games.) I 've always been a loner sort of so this is nothing new- just wondering if others
feel this way

You are not alone, I feel like that about some of my friends also.

I have noticed this about myself within the past 2-3 years. I would have never considered myself a loner before.

I totally understand where you are coming from - although I can apperciate having friends from all walks of life, I would love to have someone going through the same things as me right now guess thats why I spend soo much time here. I would love to have a couple that FH and I could hang out with and be comfortable with. Our friends are either single and partying or married with kids.


Any time you need to talk

you are not alone...

i had to 'break up with' my best friend a few months ago because i felt like i was being pooped on

make new friends! it takes time, i know, but it happens to everyone to a certain degree...

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Posted by Sasha96

i could have written the post you wrote. my old friends (from when I was a teenager) are not very close to me. My close friends now are family and someone quite different from me in many ways but the same in many ways at the same time.

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Thats strange that you say this because my best friend from college is now my SIL she is married to my dh brother-- but we are on a different page lately.

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Posted by antoinette

Im not right now. I feel as if many of my long term firends are in different direction than me
or not into the same interests as me. They all love going out and partying on the weekends
and Im so not into that anymore, but at the same time I feel left out of things. I spend alot of
time with my dh - maybe I isolate myself but he likes doing the same things as me. BUT
he spends lots of time with his friends becuase they all have the same interests as him ( playing
video games.) I 've always been a loner sort of so this is nothing new- just wondering if others
feel this way

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Geez, this is the second post today that I am reading that I feel like I could have written myself. I have no use for my friends lately. It's almost like they are standing still in life. It's sad because I love them all, but I almost have nothing to say to them anymore

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Posted by 121502

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Posted by antoinette

Im not right now. I feel as if many of my long term firends are in different direction than me
or not into the same interests as me. They all love going out and partying on the weekends
and Im so not into that anymore, but at the same time I feel left out of things. I spend alot of
time with my dh - maybe I isolate myself but he likes doing the same things as me. BUT
he spends lots of time with his friends becuase they all have the same interests as him ( playing
video games.) I 've always been a loner sort of so this is nothing new- just wondering if others
feel this way

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Geez, this is the second post today that I am reading that I feel like I could have written myself. I have no use for my friends lately. It's almost like they are standing still in life. It's sad because I love them all, but I almost have nothing to say to them anymore

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Hey...what about me!!!!

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Posted by The Original 2nd-time-around

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Posted by 121502

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Posted by antoinette

Im not right now. I feel as if many of my long term firends are in different direction than me
or not into the same interests as me. They all love going out and partying on the weekends
and Im so not into that anymore, but at the same time I feel left out of things. I spend alot of
time with my dh - maybe I isolate myself but he likes doing the same things as me. BUT
he spends lots of time with his friends becuase they all have the same interests as him ( playing
video games.) I 've always been a loner sort of so this is nothing new- just wondering if others
feel this way

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Geez, this is the second post today that I am reading that I feel like I could have written myself. I have no use for my friends lately. It's almost like they are standing still in life. It's sad because I love them all, but I almost have nothing to say to them anymore

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Hey...what about me!!!!

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OMG! I would NEVER talk about you like that! They're the reason I appreciate you as much as I do! I was talking about my lame arse group of friends that JT and I used to spend all of our time with.
But on that note, I really miss you

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Posted by 121502

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Posted by The Original 2nd-time-around

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Posted by 121502

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Posted by antoinette

Im not right now. I feel as if many of my long term firends are in different direction than me
or not into the same interests as me. They all love going out and partying on the weekends
and Im so not into that anymore, but at the same time I feel left out of things. I spend alot of
time with my dh - maybe I isolate myself but he likes doing the same things as me. BUT
he spends lots of time with his friends becuase they all have the same interests as him ( playing
video games.) I 've always been a loner sort of so this is nothing new- just wondering if others
feel this way

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Geez, this is the second post today that I am reading that I feel like I could have written myself. I have no use for my friends lately. It's almost like they are standing still in life. It's sad because I love them all, but I almost have nothing to say to them anymore

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Hey...what about me!!!!

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OMG! I would NEVER talk about you like that! They're the reason I appreciate you as much as I do! I was talking about my lame arse group of friends that JT and I used to spend all of our time with.
But on that note, I really miss you

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I was just busting on ya Wanna do dinner?

When would you like to do dinner?
(and you scared me! )